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Dave5
June 10th, 2011, 07:29 PM
Well I am 15, pretty short and shy. I dont have many friends but some of the friends i do have are really cool and do have a lot of friends. And i have never had a girlfriend. This is getting me really sad. Most people at my age have been in a relation before. I dont want anyone to know i have never had a gf, so its been kept a secret. Everytime i see family/friends, they ask me how the girls are going. You know how hard it is to change the subject.

To the real point of this thread.
There's this girl in one of my classes. I think shes the most beautiful girl ever. Not only is she really pretty, but shes a nice person in general. I really want to be in a relationship with her but I never really talked to her before. She has lots of friends and a lot of them are guys. I dont have many friends, and no friends that are girls. Im also dont talk much since i have no one to talk to. If i did have a friend to talk to, im not usually that shy.
How can a guy like me, go out with a beautiful girl like her? The realy problem is, the school yea is almost over. I have finals mon-thurs next week and i only see her one of those days. If nothing happens then, this summer is not going to be so fun.

anonymous53
June 10th, 2011, 09:19 PM
You want to know what to do? Talk to her.

Don't have a relationship for the sake of having a relationship.

I forget where I got this quote but I believe it goes this way. "Any man at any moment in time can sweep any girl off her feet"



My suggestion, go up to her and talk to her... eventually give her your number and text her.

LuckyLuke
June 10th, 2011, 09:48 PM
Listen, don't go out for the sake of going out and don't date someone with the intent of making friends.

Date her because you genuinely like her.

That being said, at this age you can't just go up to her and say "date me" but what you can do is introduce yourself, be very polite, give her your number and say, "Maybe we could text sometime" smile and walk away.

Go for it. There's nothing you can lose and the worst she can say is no.