Gay Porn?

[TtotheC]

Hey Everybody!

I just wonder what you guys think. I could watch heterosexual porn, take 10 to 15 minutes and get a decent orgasm. Then i could watch gay porn, take about 3 minutes and get a stronger orgasm, what does that mean? Does that mean i'm gay? Just wondering what you guys think.

[frickinTONY]

It's probably because it's something new.

[RoseyCadaver]

It's probably because it's something new.

Yeah,I remember watching it the first time and it was like this happened ^^.Now I'm bi and watch it more then hetro so it doesn't work anymore :P.

[Pancakes]

Gay porn turns me way off but what ever floats yer boat. :P

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

Well if you get more "excited" with gay porn, then you are curious about that.

[Tristin.]

no, it doesnt mean your gay. in order to be gay, you have to have to be emotionaly attracted and sexualy attracted to men. your are probably curious and gt excited, resulting in your stronger sensation

[Parlement]

Just because you like something does not determine your sexuality. That would be like saying, because I like pickles, that eating pickles makes me gay. Whatever you like, you can't help it. And the stronger orgasms are problably just because it's something very new to you.

Finding your sexuality takes time, it's not just going to hit you all of a sudden.

[MustangRacer35]

It's something new and different to you so it seems more exciting. Just watching something won't make you gay or bi.

[beardedboy]

Just because you watch gay porn doesn't mean that you are gay, it just means you are curious. Being gay means there is an emotional feeling toward the same sex.

[mrbob360]

looking at gay porn doesnt make you gay your just curious and looking for something new you onl have a sort of physical attraction to guys sometimes things happens because you may watch straight porn all the time and just get bored so you look at gay porn and you will cum quicker so nothing to worry about perfectly normal to explore

[TtotheC]

I'd like to thank everyone for their very supportive and helpful answers!!!:)
It all seems to click a little into place now, thanks a lot!:)

[MusicRox]

It definitaly doesn't mean ur gay...

during puberty anything turns you on

[JulioLovesYou]

i have the same feeling but im straight i think its just because were new to watching gay porn

actually means that you are not completely "str8"
believe me i did the same foolish mistake;)

Just because you like something does not determine your sexuality. That would be like saying, because I like pickles, that eating pickles makes me gay. Whatever you like, you can't help it. And the stronger orgasms are problably just because it's something very new to you.

Finding your sexuality takes time, it's not just going to hit you all of a sudden.

look that thing: "oh that thing is new so i get more pleasent orgasms" is just bull crap
believe i've been through that :)

[jrl719]

The fact that people are saying "This is new so I get more excited" doesn't make sense to me, sorry. You could be straight curious, not bisexual or gay. It really doesn't matter, let what's going to happen, happen, and don't let what happens get you down, you are who you are, and the friends and family that don't except your for it(considering you may turn out gay), they weren't really your friends or close relatives.

But then, it could also be raging hormones.

So you could be totally straight, and what I just typed up there was a possibility :D

~Edit~ I also follow the statement that Gay is not a choice... It's really a subconscious thing I think... Either way, you don't choose, your mind does.

[TtotheC]

look that thing: "oh that thing is new so i get more pleasent orgasms" is just bull crap
believe i've been through that :)

So it was different for you, guess what, you're UNIQUE! Everybody is, and just because you experienced something in some way, doesn't mean that goes up for everybody.

Plus mate, you're 14, stop talking like you've been through a lifetime of experience lol.

[CaptainObvious]

So it was different for you, guess what, you're UNIQUE! Everybody is, and just because you experienced something in some way, doesn't mean that goes up for everybody.

Plus mate, you're 14, stop talking like you've been through a lifetime of experience lol.

well, here's something from many years of experience seeing advice like this given on forums: all this "well it's new so it's more exciting" or "yeah well i just like gay porn cuz the guys seem to be more into it" or "yeah i know that guys turn me on but i'm just curious, i'm actually still straight because i can't see myself marrying a guy right now" ...it's all kind of nonsense. sexuality is about sexual attraction, not whatever heteronormative relationship expectations society has put into everyone's collective head. i'm gay and i couldn't see myself in a relationship with a guy till i was probably 16.

if you find yourself sexually attracted to guys, you are something other than straight, which could mean bisexual (leaning one way or another) or gay. this, of course, is all with the disclaimer that sexual orientation can change by small or large amounts. so... do the guys turn you on?

[User Deleted]

Three words: Its all physiological

[TtotheC]

well, here's something from many years of experience seeing advice like this given on forums: all this "well it's new so it's more exciting" or "yeah well i just like gay porn cuz the guys seem to be more into it" or "yeah i know that guys turn me on but i'm just curious, i'm actually still straight because i can't see myself marrying a guy right now" ...it's all kind of nonsense. sexuality is about sexual attraction, not whatever heteronormative relationship expectations society has put into everyone's collective head. i'm gay and i couldn't see myself in a relationship with a guy till i was probably 16.

if you find yourself sexually attracted to guys, you are something other than straight, which could mean bisexual (leaning one way or another) or gay. this, of course, is all with the disclaimer that sexual orientation can change by small or large amounts. so... do the guys turn you on?

Well a lot of people just grow out of it;) It either escalates and evolves, or you end up really being gay, which of course, there's nothing wrong with that!

But i really stand for the vision that fantasy is fantasy. If someone could get really excited by the idea of sex with a man, that's all in their head, and it doesnt have to reflect on real life u know? Of course u dont know unless you try, but why try, if you dont feel the need to? Sexuality comes naturally. Personally i have no interest of being with a man, but yeah i had some good wanks to gay porn, But in real life, i dont want to get that close to a man, and my relations with them are pure friendship :). My sexual attraction leans towards girls, definitely, fantasy is different! Unless it starts occuring in real life, then you should maybe reconsider imo.

But for example, someone could get really turned on by animal porn, that's sexual attraction too haha, no really, its the same thing. Doesnt mean that someone's gonna fuck an ostrich ;).

But you could feel different, but i think everyone just has to go with what they feel is right, and how they feel themselves, not go with what others have to say.:)

[CaptainObvious]

But i really stand for the vision that fantasy is fantasy. If someone could get really excited by the idea of sex with a man, that's all in their head, and it doesnt have to reflect on real life u know?

No, I don't really know. The vast majority of people I have ever met live fantasy lives that are related to how they sexually identify. Straight guys don't spend their time fantasizing about men, and I don't spend my time fantasizing about women. Any of my (their) time. That said, if you're not at all attracted to guys in real life then that's that, ultimately.

You do (though I think unintentionally) make one of the possible arguments as to why more people seem to fantasize about men than identify as gay:

But for example, someone could get really turned on by animal porn, that's sexual attraction too haha, no really, its the same thing. Doesnt mean that someone's gonna fuck an ostrich ;).

Right, and why wouldn't they do that? Because sex with animals is looked down upon. In the exact same way, lots of teenagers - who may very well be bisexual or gay - feel innately that there's something wrong with it; this is the source of the countless people I've seen say "I'm attracted to guys but I still want a wife and kids and can't see myself being in a long term relationship with a guy" even though they invariably eventually identify as gay.

[TtotheC]

No, I don't really know. The vast majority of people I have ever met live fantasy lives that are related to how they sexually identify. Straight guys don't spend their time fantasizing about men, and I don't spend my time fantasizing about women. Any of my (their) time. That said, if you're not at all attracted to guys in real life then that's that, ultimately.

You do (though I think unintentionally) make one of the possible arguments as to why more people seem to fantasize about men than identify as gay:



Well see what i'm trying to imply here is that having a same sex fantasy every once in a while shouldn't determine your sexuality. How you feel about the same sex in real life, that should! What i meant is that if you were to watch gay porn and get off to it, and next to that have a perfect sex life with your girlfriend, then that doesnt have to mean anything, plenty of guys do that. Of course you can't be straight if you're not sexually attracted to the opposite sex, but why should watching gay porn determine your sexuality? Once again, i think it's really personal for everybody, of course you could have your opinion, but mine is that just having a same sex fantasy every now and then shouldn't determine your sexuality. In your HEAD/FANTASY, it's a perfect world where everything you want to imagine is possible, and your own free will. Everyone is free to be who they want to be, you straight, you straight. Untill the day that proves them wrong comes, once again, IN REAL LIFE. The mind is way too complex to base sexuality on.



Right, and why wouldn't they do that? Because sex with animals is looked down upon. In the exact same way, lots of teenagers - who may very well be bisexual or gay - feel innately that there's something wrong with it; this is the source of the countless people I've seen say "I'm attracted to guys but I still want a wife and kids and can't see myself being in a long term relationship with a guy" even though they invariably eventually identify as gay.



now that's just plain stupid, sorry for saying, but purely by fantasizing about animals doesn't mean anyone is going to do so. There's a certain thrill behind it, which makes it interesting. If you fantasize about animals, and if next to that you're interested in the opposite sex, you're still straight, not gay for animals. Honestly i say that porn, any kind, is sooo much different from real life! If you were to experience the real thing (if you've got interest in this in the first place, if you don't, i still dont get why you would) and liked it, then it would be different of course. But tell me, if you liked animal porn, are you going to marry a Giraffe? If you are, please do invite me, i'd love to see. ;)