I think my cousin is hitting on me.

[Tcook93]

Okay so the other night my cousin,whom lives with me & my parents at the moment, came home from his sister's house, drunk. Like usual we stayed up late watching movies, but that night he asked me what my opinion on incest was. I told him i thought it was wrong. He agreed but asked what about cousins or atleast the same sex ken, if it would still be wrong to have sex with them. I told him maybe it would depend on the situation, maybe it could just be experimenting. Then he asked well do you think it would be wrong for me and him to have sex or fool around. I said maybe not but it would be kind of weird. He said yeah it would be, huh? And he is 27 & im 17. I thought that would make it more weird & wrong. But the thing is i've experimented with my male cousins around my age before. And he told me he experimened with our cousin who is the same age as him, when they were my age. Plus he's told me he 's staight but when he is drunk he'll screw anyone. Sorry for all the rambling. What im trying to say is he was talking about us fucking all night and i kind of wanted to fool around with him too. But i was afraid of the awkwardness the next day. Do you think it would have been wrong of us to fool around? Would it be expermenting or would that just be completely wrong?

[Michigan48111]

I think its wrong...if you wanna experiment try it with friends your own age. Sounds like he just wants.it when he is drunk.

[Pancakes]

I tihkn that's wrong

[Mysterious Skin]

Experimenting Sometimes Ruins a Relationship.
So i dont think its a good idea to Experiment within the family.

[Whatsgud]

Completely agreed with bornthisway ^

[MustangRacer35]

Experimenting with family isn't a very good idea in the first place. Plus the fact that he is 10 years older makes it even worse. It can make things very awkward between you and him.

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

Not Good at all Man. Doing anything like that with family is wrong, illegal and just awkward. Find someone else.

[Infidelitas]

Moving to Family and Friends.

[flashstep96]

The decision is up to you, just be carefull. Honestly though; I know Several people who've messed around with their cousins, so it doesent seem that uncommon

[RoseyCadaver]

Experimenting with family,is very touchy.My view is well I find it a little weird,especially if it's like siblings.I mean you can try it if you want,it is your choice,it's not like you can get pregnant,but he could have an STD.I would just be worrying about it ruining your relationship with him as family ,you know?

[WhimsicalFlower]

where is his morality?

[ackmedsgirl666]

in my opinion incest is wrong....
and fooling arounf with family members is wrong too
friends is probably ur best bet

[NomSan]

I think it's wrong, especially because of the age gap.

[WhimsicalFlower]

I think it's wrong, especially because of the age gap.

yeah, i agree. the fact that the person who started this thread is not even legal age yet makes it sound even worse. i could guarantee that by the time his cousin was sober, he would regret it painfully.

[whensmytime]

^ 17 is legal in some countries. my mate kissed her cousin and regretted it cos she felt awkward. it isnt legal to sleep with him. plus big age difference is never great

[Speedy29]

thats weird, but he was drunk but still thats not an excuse, handle your liquor

[SWMG]

Well experimenting with family is really delicate and really up to you because it can ruin relationships and worst of cousins and you have a 10 year difference so you have to be careful with the decisions

[MusicRox]

It's weird...i guess,

ur age difference would make it illegal (sexual activity between minor and adult)

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

thats weird, but he was drunk but still thats not an excuse, handle your liquor
Nicely stated.
This is one of my pet peeves. Far too often people blame alcohol or drugs for their actions, or lack thereof. When a person is intoxicated or "impaired" on either drugs or alcohol these thoughts just didn't suddenly come to their minds. They were there long before they became "impaired". Now granted, before becoming impaired, they may have controlled their urge to act upon their desires, but by no means did the "substance(s) cause these thoughts. It just impeded their rationalization mechanisms.

[Neonbutterfly]

I think he was just too drunk to know what he was saying. And the age difference, and the fact that your family makes experimenting with him a bad idea.

[Joe410ish]

if he just wants it when he's drunk then don't do it, wait til he's sober and THINK about it

[kylenike]

you only live once try it, you could of loved it and it could be a cool thing

[Tenoramic]

I mess around with my cousin before, does little mess up with relAtionhip but I never regret

[Magenta]

Personally, I believe that is very wrong. You're family.
If you really want to mess around, find a friend or someone you like that's not a family member.