Don't know where to begin

[flashstep96]

Hey guys! I havent been on here in FOREVER! Anyways, alot of stuff has changed and i really don't know where to begin, but here goes.

I'm 15, and Ive been in high school for 2 years now. I've been going through alot. Im working on my social anixety, I have a few freinds that i love to death. But I have NO experience in the romantic department. Why? One: I'm the only Gay/bi guy in my school. 2: I'm a furry. So obviously; romance is difficult. The freinds I have love me for ME, they know eveything, but how the flip can I find that one guy who will be with me, despite the fact that I "have a cat tail" and hear the voices of dead people. (THAT will be explained later)
I just figured..If i could be myself and have freinds who love the real me, then i could have a bf who would too...any thoughts

[Psychintraining]

Umm can you help me understand this "furry" concept? What's a furry? And I'm interested in why you think you hear the voices of dead people? My girl friend is psychic, so I have an appreciation for what you must be going through... the only advice I can give, because frankly you're asking a lot of your audience is to just do some soul searching; try and find yourself, what you mean to you, and what you want to contribute to the world around you. Once you really begin understanding you, you can help people understand them through love and a relationship.

[flashstep96]

Umm can you help me understand this "furry" concept? What's a furry? And I'm interested in why you think you hear the voices of dead people? My girl friend is psychic, so I have an appreciation for what you must be going through... the only advice I can give, because frankly you're asking a lot of your audience is to just do some soul searching; try and find yourself, what you mean to you, and what you want to contribute to the world around you. Once you really begin understanding you, you can help people understand them through love and a relationship.

Ah, okay then lets see...Furry is a sort of Fandom/ subculture (Like emo or something simmilar) involving Anthropomorpic (Human Shaped) animals. Exmaples of this are "Star fox"(The game series). Sajin Komomura from Bleach (anime),
A furry has a few things that define: 1) high levels of intelligence
2) Bipedism (waking on two legs)
3) A human like body stucture (like hands and feet n stuff) While still retaining its animal like features (such as Cat ears, tail, fur, fangs ect.)

Aside from all the bullcrap you see on TV; furries are actually really nice. i guess in a sense you have what you are born as (a human) and what you see yourself as. Self Identity. To some, it seems stupid, weird, or childish. Actually from a child's view; furries are Giant lovable plushies! XD
anyways, Some furries do the fursuiting thing. (I'm not one of them), some create a furry peersona AKA a "Fursona" that they use online through roleplay, drawing, writing ect. Some like me, are perfectly content with having ears and a tail. (depending on the animal depends on the name you refer to them as)


As for the "hearing voices of dead people thing" Thats not a lie. I was not born with Special powers. I learned. Yep. I can see aura, sense the presence of spirits; as well as hear them and see them a tiny bit. I can do a few other things too. But they arnt as strong. Its been like this for about a year and a half. Needless to say it's thrown my world for a loop.

[Psychintraining]

I still don't understand furry... it seems pointless. You don't have cat ears or a tail. You're a human being. And that's interesting, does your spirit world have a name? Do you visit it?

[IFWT]

Hey furry girl :)
I am 100% sure there is a girl/something for you out there :) you just have to wait. Not every high school has loads of people like you, you are, in a positive way, special :) this is sounding really weird XD but in my opinion, you just have to give it time, the right person will come around :)
And as for the furry thing :) i think it's cool! i've met furries too, nice people :)
as for the hearind dead people, either just tell the person, or wait a bit so you don't scare the person :) don't know if this helps AT ALL XD

[flashstep96]

Hey furry girl :)
I am 100% sure there is a girl/something for you out there :) you just have to wait. Not every high school has loads of people like you, you are, in a positive way, special :) this is sounding really weird XD but in my opinion, you just have to give it time, the right person will come around :)
And as for the furry thing :) i think it's cool! i've met furries too, nice people :)
as for the hearind dead people, either just tell the person, or wait a bit so you don't scare the person :) don't know if this helps AT ALL XD

ROFL, thanks! It does help :) Only one thing; I'm a guy O_O You people make me laugh.

[flashstep96]

I still don't understand furry... it seems pointless. You don't have cat ears or a tail. You're a human being. And that's interesting, does your spirit world have a name? Do you visit it?

1) I don't expect you to understand; to some it does seem stupid and pointelss. But think about this: You have who you ARE: a human being, born male or female with a given name. And who you SEE yourself as.
I'm not trying to instigate a conflict: i appreciate you're reply very much and respect your opinions :P
But I don't know what you mean by "My spirit world" thing...

[IFWT]

ROFL, thanks! It does help :) Only one thing; I'm a guy O_O You people make me laugh.

Haha sorry about the gender mistake :) i was just thinking you were a girl from your picture :) well i did say person didn't i XD? boy=person too :D well good luck on your furry hunt dude :)