Tell him

[audiophile5]

There is a boy in my class, that I really like, but i dont know if he is gay/bi. I thought of telling him for a long time, and next week there is an event of Facebook called "Tell them how you feel" and that day, you are supposed to tell whoever you like your feelings....Should I tell him? Cause we are pretty good friends and we might be in the same class in high school too, and I dont want to ruin the friendship or even worse the whole school to find out....Thanks:)

[kdddd]

If you trust him and your friendship is good enough, then tell him. If he's not like that then he should just be cool with it and not hate you. He also shouldnt tell the whole school. But if you dont trust him that much then maybe you shouldnt. but in the end it comes down to you

[Infidelitas]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Lil Ill]

If you tell him do it in a one on one setting, I think posting it on facebook would be a bad move.

[spoke]

If you tell him do it in a one on one setting, I think posting it on facebook would be a bad move.

i agree. too many people can see posts on facebook if the privacy settings aren't set up right. and i think it also depends on how mature he is. this could easily get out of hand if he doesn't feel the same way you do.

[Calex]

if he is a really friend he will accept you no matter what is your sexuality is.

[audiophile5]

If you tell him do it in a one on one setting, I think posting it on facebook would be a bad move.
I didn't thought of telling him on a wall post on Facebook. just that i saw the opportunity with that Facebook event..

[SWMG]

If you are really close and he is not that squared go ahead and tell him

[Lil Ill]

I didn't thought of telling him on a wall post on Facebook. just that i saw the opportunity with that Facebook event..

That's cool, but face to face, one on one tis wil allow the other person to give you an honest answer without the pressure of other people listening in or looking on. Good luck in which ever way you tell him it will work out the way it should.

[ShatteredWings]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

NOW it's moved :P

[Mysterious Skin]

A couple of months ago a New Guy came to my school I was totally in love with him and i was pretty sure he felt the same. But i never told him how i felt, and he moved away. Turns out he did love me too.
Just Go for it.
Dont Make the Same Mistake i did.

[Jon Doe 401]

i would tell my friend first that i was gay/bi.. if hes your friend he wont care. then tell him you have crush on him... but let a week or two go by