It's so unfair!

[DarkNick]

I can't believe him...
My father says that I shouldn't go for vacation 'cause he doesn't have money (out of the sudden!).The truth behind that is that a friend of his left from there (we go to a camping every year and he used to be next to us) and he doesn't want to go 'cause he won't find his friend there BUT he wouldn't go anyway since he is not able to (medical problems).He says that I DON'T DESERVE that much money and he wants me to stay here and rot alone....I have to go for vacations one f*cking year while everyone goes somewhere,plus It's my last summer 'cause the next two years I'll spend my summers studying!!!!!.I'm being bullied everyday and the city that I live is getting creepier in summers and he knows that and still he won't let me!
It's SO unfair! :'( and I've no idea how to make him change his mind! :'(

[Sage]

Vacations are a luxury, not a right. If he really does have a medical condition that prevents him from going, there really isn't anything you can say that'll change his mind. Deal with it and make the best of your time- pick up a hobby or something.

[DarkNick]

Vacations are a luxury, not a right. If he really does have a medical condition that prevents him from going, there really isn't anything you can say that'll change his mind. Deal with it and make the best of your time- pick up a hobby or something.

You think?
Pick a hobby where?In a dead city where they will either steal you or punch you to death?(not me,everyone)and I why should I be in the same boat with him?I went for vacations alone last year,so why should I listen to him now 'cause of that?
And when you are a slave in your own family I believe that you deserve it...don't you think?For 9 months I've been through god knows what to go and live my life for a tiny bit without thinking some tiny holes of happiness inside the darkness just to go through the day is wrong?Since I can and he can let me do it too why not to do it?'Cause of a dream that would never been fulfilled anyway? Don't you think that it's too selfish?If it is like that then another good think is to throw me out of the house 'cause I don't cook very well,yeah that's cool...

I learned one thing in my life.Respect the others and treat them as well as you can.I learned that from my family and I followed every word from it but why don't they do the same?

(Sorry I didn't mean to insult you with that comment in any way,I just have too much anger in me at the moment..)

[john.huston45]

First of all you should tell all this things your fathers best friend to convince him. And tell him try to understand this all this things that this is last chance after it, you will not get any chances up to 2 years. You may get permission and enjoy your time. All the best.

[Skeptical Bear]

Go out somewhere. I'm sure it isn't a dead city. Ride your bike or what ever you have. Play a sport or video games. Hang with friends. Not the best advice but it's not the end of the world for you. I have nothing much to do this summer either. I don't really mind it that much though.

[DarkNick]

Go out somewhere. I'm sure it isn't a dead city. Ride your bike or what ever you have. Play a sport or video games. Hang with friends. Not the best advice but it's not the end of the world for you. I have nothing much to do this summer either. I don't really mind it that much though.

I go in that camping to spend my vacations since I was born...
And it is a dead city since all of my friends will go and they'll come back in the end of the august...
And I believe that I'll lose my summer if I just sit in front of a television for 3 months...
I play tennis but we stopped for summer....and all the other sport facilities will do so...
80% of the people leave my city for summer holidays...Only the poor and bad guys stay here...