Do you feel like me?

[falken16]

Ok...

So if you are anything like me, the fact you're on a teen help forum is unusual. The fact you just registered for said forum and are posting is unusual. But life's gotten pretty weird recently and you don't know what to do.

I use 'weird' and not 'depressing' because really, my life isn't that depressing. I went to a great school... i'm know for a fact i'm intelligent, because i graduated from high school with a fairly impressive result. But now I'm at university... I don't like my course, I hate every second, I don't understand why I need to study so soon after leaving school, especially for shit i'm not even interested in. I realised that even though I've never had trouble getting girls, i'm awful at relationships that last longer than an hour, and even though i've done everything else there is to be done, i've never been able to bring myself to have sex with a girl despite the opportunity popping up often ever since i was in 10th grade. Call it old fashioned... I want it to mean something the first time. But now i'm the odd one out because I haven't... this isn't what i want to talk about, you get the idea.

My life is pointless at the moment... I don't know what I want, but it's not what I have now. There's a girl who I would love to go out with, but I don't know if she likes me, and she's about to get out of a relationship which she's been in for 3 and a half years: i don't think she's interested in dating right now.

there's a hell of a lot of detail missing, but i'm so apathetic i can't be fucked writing it out. What should I do with my life, internet? give me something drastic

[Love.Hate]

Ok...

So if you are anything like me, the fact you're on a teen help forum is unusual. The fact you just registered for said forum and are posting is unusual. But life's gotten pretty weird recently and you don't know what to do.

I use 'weird' and not 'depressing' because really, my life isn't that depressing. I went to a great school... i'm know for a fact i'm intelligent, because i graduated from high school with a fairly impressive result. But now I'm at university... I don't like my course, I hate every second, I don't understand why I need to study so soon after leaving school, especially for shit i'm not even interested in. I realised that even though I've never had trouble getting girls, i'm awful at relationships that last longer than an hour, and even though i've done everything else there is to be done, i've never been able to bring myself to have sex with a girl despite the opportunity popping up often ever since i was in 10th grade. Call it old fashioned... I want it to mean something the first time. But now i'm the odd one out because I haven't... this isn't what i want to talk about, you get the idea.

My life is pointless at the moment... I don't know what I want, but it's not what I have now. There's a girl who I would love to go out with, but I don't know if she likes me, and she's about to get out of a relationship which she's been in for 3 and a half years: i don't think she's interested in dating right now.

there's a hell of a lot of detail missing, but i'm so apathetic i can't be fucked writing it out. What should I do with my life, internet? give me something drastic

First off... your not pathetic, okay? You have come here for advice. Nothing wrong with that.

I wouldnt call it old fashioned either.. quite a lot of people want there first time to be something special.. i know i do. Dont feel pressured because your friends have already done it. Everyone does things in their own time.

Is there any chance you could change courses? Is it too late? Because if your not enjoying it, and you dont want to do something in that area when your older.. what the point in studying it? Having good grades is all well and good, but you need to use them to the best of your ability. Do something you enjoy.
Quite a lot of people dont know what they want, and thats okay.. its never too late to go back and study something else.

And as this girl is just coming out of a relationship, i wouldnt try to date her straight away... Be there for her if she wants to talk. Take her out places, and generally get to know her. :)