How do you get over a relationship?

[Hatsune Miku]

Me and my ex were always fighting alot. So she finally broke up with me.. The reason we were fighting would lead me to go into a huge wall of text, and I really don't want to look back on it. The day she broke up with me I saw that there was someone else.. I was broken. And now I cant get over the fact that she left me for someone else.. It fucking hurts. What do I do?

[Scarface]

First of all I understand how you feel completely.
This may sound slightly drastic, but this is what could help you. So I'm going to ask a few questions to maybe understand this a little more. Do you have any songs that remind you of her a lot? If the answer is yes, then get rid of them, they will only depress you whilst you listen to them and it won't help getting over the person when you're reminded of them through music. Especially since music to me has a lot of relation to things and people in my life. It helped me. Secondly you just have to completely etch the negativity out of your mind, if that means just leaving all the better memories in your mind, it's better than having all the bad and fights and regret in your head right?

Accepting that it's over is a huge step if you haven't already done so because some people think that keeping them in your mind and thinking things could get better is unfortunately a slim to none chance, especially since y'all didn't end on a good note.

Just surround yourself with some positive people, and don't bring her up in the conversation, just remove her from it and just move on from all those situations. But keep your head up, don't let her keep you in the dumps, she's obviously not in it for the long run, so she doesn't deserve the time of day to think about.

You'll be alright man, just hang in there, sometimes it takes some time to really get over it, but you can do it. If you need someone to talk to I'm always here.
:cowboy:

[ackmedsgirl666]

eventually u will come across somebody new or maybe who knows ur ex might come back to you but i hope ur smart and dont take her back considering she hurt you
im not sure what more to say but just try and stay cool and move on bro

[Sage]

You realize there are more important things in life.

[Hatsune Miku]

First of all I understand how you feel completely.
This may sound slightly drastic, but this is what could help you. So I'm going to ask a few questions to maybe understand this a little more. Do you have any songs that remind you of her a lot? If the answer is yes, then get rid of them, they will only depress you whilst you listen to them and it won't help getting over the person when you're reminded of them through music. Especially since music to me has a lot of relation to things and people in my life. It helped me. Secondly you just have to completely etch the negativity out of your mind, if that means just leaving all the better memories in your mind, it's better than having all the bad and fights and regret in your head right?

Accepting that it's over is a huge step if you haven't already done so because some people think that keeping them in your mind and thinking things could get better is unfortunately a slim to none chance, especially since y'all didn't end on a good note.

Just surround yourself with some positive people, and don't bring her up in the conversation, just remove her from it and just move on from all those situations. But keep your head up, don't let her keep you in the dumps, she's obviously not in it for the long run, so she doesn't deserve the time of day to think about.

You'll be alright man, just hang in there, sometimes it takes some time to really get over it, but you can do it. If you need someone to talk to I'm always here.
:cowboy:

Yeah, there are a few songs that remind me of her. There's actually alot. And alot of other things besides songs. I try to just not think about them but they somehow fine their way to creep into my mind.

[RoseyCadaver]

^ What sage said.It was never really for me to get over relationships.Realize that there are many fish, MANY.Never ,ever forget that.It's her loss for being with someone else,try to think of it that way.I'm POSITIVE you will find someone,so come one turn that frown upside down :D.


Peace

[TrackKid29]

girls come and go bro, your still young

[Scarface]

Yeah, there are a few songs that remind me of her. There's actually alot. And alot of other things besides songs. I try to just not think about them but they somehow fine their way to creep into my mind.

Of course they will, it's the sick part of breaking up with someone is there are always going to be those reminders in your head for some time. Especially since they were a bigger portion of your life and dedicated lot's of time to that person. They're going to be on your mind for a little while, but after time, it's going to wear off and you'll have moved on. But don't put yourself through unnecessary punishment by listening to those songs, looking or thinking about your past conversations with her, continuing old habits. It's a fruitless cause. It just takes time, as lame as that sounds, it's the truth.