I have a Paraphilia (Fetish of sort) problem (or is it)

[Hdhagsggdui]

I have posted about this problem in a far less serious way before. I was asking about enjoyment of destroying objects, for some mental pleaser of sorts.

All of this seems to be linked to some sort of behavior that is normally found in anti social people. I haven't been a very social person to say the least.

So, what I'm really trying to figure out is; do I get help, or, do I enjoy my pleaser. I do not ever feel any violence, and I haven't ever had any traumatic events in my life.


The only real downside I can see in the short run is wasting money.

Any advice? :what:

One thing that comes to mind after writing this is that, I also like many of the other things listed on this wiki page here

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilia
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kink_(sexual)

[Syvelocin]

I don't think you mean people who are antisocial. I think you mean antisocial personality disorder, which has nothing to do with being antisocial really. It's the current personality disorder that used to be sadistic personality, or psychopathy.

I followed the link, and it's a fetish hun, and you seem to describe it as liking to break things.

[Hdhagsggdui]

I don't think you mean people who are antisocial. I think you mean antisocial personality disorder, which has nothing to do with being antisocial really. It's the current personality disorder that used to be sadistic personality, or psychopathy.

I followed the link, and it's a fetish hun, and you seem to describe it as liking to break things.


Is it a bad thing? Or just something I enjoy. I guess if you looked at how much fireworks cost, destroying stuff isn't that much different.

[Syvelocin]

I've heard of this before actually. I only think it becomes a bad thing when it goes into destroying other people's property, or is costing you a lot of money, like destroying valuables. I'd probably try to control it a bit, maybe bring it down to something like crushing nuts, ripping paper. But if it is already controlled, it's not much of an issue. Overall, yeah, unless it's out of control, I don't see it as much of a bad thing.

[Hdhagsggdui]

I've heard of this before actually. I only think it becomes a bad thing when it goes into destroying other people's property, or is costing you a lot of money, like destroying valuables. I'd probably try to control it a bit, maybe bring it down to something like crushing nuts, ripping paper. But if it is already controlled, it's not much of an issue. Overall, yeah, unless it's out of control, I don't see it as much of a bad thing.

Thank you for the advice, I should probably try to tone it down to less expensive stuff.

It makes me feel better now that I know its not completely weirdo of me. :)