i need help

[the man101]

so theirs this girl i like and we've know each other for a long time i'm 13 and shes 13 i just wanted to know how to flirt with her. give me tips and every thing please girls to

[Sage]

Don't think about flirting. If you're attracted to her, flirty mannerisms should find their way into your speech and body language unconsciously. Just talk to her.

[the man101]

Don't think about flirting. If you're attracted to her, flirty mannerisms should find their way into your speech and body language unconsciously. Just talk to her.

thank for nothing

[anonymous53]

Sage actually gave you the perfect advice, so I'd suggest you listen to him. Just relax. It will happen on its own since you like her.

[Sage]

thank for nothing

Okay then. Ask her how much a polar bear weighs.

[Dimitri]

Or say fluffy penguins because fluffy penguins break the ice.

[Scarface]

Or how about we give relevant advice that the OP requested in the original post so we can stay on topic and answer the thread? Eh?

[Dimitri]

Just br really nice. Many guys arnt being chivelous, I can't spell little words. You know, open the door and stuff. I have been called out as flirty for that, even playing brain games with her. But what sage said is also correct. You will be naturally flirty with her if you like her but if you try you might go over the top.

[LuckyLuke]

"TheMan", don't be rude to sage- she gave you honest, excellent advice.

Now, for some of us, it doesn't come naturally no matter what so here's the basic "flirtatious" tips-

1- lot's of flirty contact. NO that does NOT mean make her uncomfortable. In casual conversation, touch her arm when laughing, give her hugs (if she's comfortable and responsive)

2- make her feel like a damn queen. You should treat her, with your words, like she's the greatest thing to ever touch this earth OR you can go for the opposite and be the "rude lover" and be flirty mean. Basically that's saying, "You know that girl over there is really hot, but you- eh, you're pretty foine' yourself."... don't use that one until you KNOW she likes you back and, of course, edit it for your age.

3- The rest should really flow naturally.

[Sage]

2- make her feel like a damn queen. You should treat her, with your words, like she's the greatest thing to ever touch this earth

That might work at thirteen between immature lovers but most if not all the women I know absolutely despise that and it's an excellent way to get friend-zoned. It's patronizing and makes you look overly needy and dependent. Don't put the pussy on the pedestal.

[LuckyLuke]

I disagree, chivalry isn't dead. When I say treat her like a queen, I don't mean kiss her feat but be a damn man. Open the doors, pull out her seat (if appropriate), hold hands in front of your friends, don't disrespect her, pay for her meals, etc.

[Sage]

I disagree, chivalry isn't dead. When I say treat her like a queen, I don't mean kiss her feat but be a damn man. Open the doors, pull out her seat (if appropriate), hold hands in front of your friends, don't disrespect her, pay for her meals, etc.

That's still patronizing and sexist.

[LuckyLuke]

That's still patronizing and sexist.
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Only if you take it that way. I call it being proper, polite, and chivalrous.

[Dimitri]

I have to agree. That is how I have treated any and all girls I have known.