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lacrosselover
June 6th, 2011, 10:13 PM
im going to camp soon and im very worried about my body in the showers
i have very little hair and i dont want to be the only one
im 13
is it normal to be hairless except for pubes?
also im bisexual so im worried about erections
should i be worried?
Anima
June 6th, 2011, 10:49 PM
dude everybody else is going to be naked also probably , you dont have to be worried about other people seeing you naked. If somebody does make fun of you becuase your more hairless, just give the usual "why are you looking then?" comeback. Also , about not getting an erection might be hard for you, your going to half to practice your self control haha and OMG YOU MET LADY GAGA HOLY CRAP LUCKY PERSON!!!!! OMG OMG OMG
superman4u69
June 6th, 2011, 11:15 PM
hey dude u shouldnt be worried cause ur hairless except
for pubes and u shouldnt worry about getitng erections
everyone else is gonna be nude and they will prob get
erections to so everything is normal nothing to worry about
hung
June 6th, 2011, 11:38 PM
don't worry about hair, I am 16 and still barely have any hair. I play football and the erections will come and go, trust me everyone gets them. if you feel one coming on make the water colder and don't think about it, in fact ignore it. But you shower together? I go to sleep away camp, and we have bathrooms and showers but only one person uses them at a time so you should be ok.
MustangRacer35
June 7th, 2011, 12:00 AM
Chances are they will be others there who will have little hair so they probably won't say anything about that. As for erections, everyone probably will get one at some point so you shouldn't worry too much. Maybe you will get one the first few times but after that being naked around others becomes more natural and you won't have to worry about getting hard.
Parlement
June 7th, 2011, 12:49 AM
Don't be scared. It's normal to not have much hair at 13, chances are there will be people that have a lot less hair than you.
And as for getting erections in the shower, don't worry about that either. If it does happen, then don't worry, it's perfectly normal. I get erections in the shower all the time when I shower with other people at the gym. Nobody seems to care.
And also, OMG OMG OMG YOU MET LADY GAGA!!!!! SHE'S MY FREAKING IDOL!!!
EpiclyAwesome
June 7th, 2011, 02:08 AM
Yea your good dont worry about any thing because all that is normal
Nihilus
June 7th, 2011, 02:57 AM
Yes it's normal. I started getting hairier in 10th grade. It's nothing to worry about and there will be many like you.
Michigan48111
June 7th, 2011, 04:47 AM
Are you the only one who's 13 and has just pubes - NO and I am sure there are a lot of other boys there just like you. Don't be worried about erections either, they happen. If it happens and you feel awkward or someone starts pointing and laughing, you can always turn it back on them say something like "at least I am able to get one". You'll be fine at camp and most of the boys there are thinking and worrying of the same thing. I did my first time at camp and it didn't last long.
kdddd
June 7th, 2011, 08:27 AM
Like everyone has said it's normal to not have much hair. Some people will have less some will have more. Most people will get boners regardless so just be casual and if you don't make a big deal about it, others won't.
Giles
June 7th, 2011, 09:00 AM
No matter what happens or what the other guys are like. You won't be the only one. There will be at least one other person there that has a small(er) penis, has little/no hair, is short, gets an erection etc.
lacrosselover
June 7th, 2011, 01:32 PM
thanks guys :) you savied me i was so worried :)
Parlement
June 7th, 2011, 02:49 PM
Nothing to be worried about. There probably will be people will less hair than you as I said before. And if you get a boner, nobody should care about it. Just go in there, take a shower, and get out.
Chances are you won't even get an erection though.
Boxerbriefs96
June 7th, 2011, 10:48 PM
is it normal to be hairless except for pubes? yes
also im bisexual so im worried about erections
should i be worried? Not really, everyone is worried at first about it. But after the first few times, it gets to be normal and part of the routine.
Drew7
June 7th, 2011, 11:07 PM
wow, you guys are nuts because i'm 13 and have been showering after pe for some time and if someone got an erection, they'd be called gay in a heart beat. like forever...
as for hair, no one really will care, but don't get an erection. if you feel one coming on, rinse off as fast as you can and get dressed and get out.
i gotta call shenanigans on the poster who say not to worry about it and other guys will get them. I've taken hundreds of showers in shower rooms, no stalls, no privacy, nothing. For two years every day at school and a lot of times at a health club and I've seen ONE erection and that kid is still picked on over a year later.
honestly, to the other posters, you really think it's not a big deal for a 13 year old? no way. maybe at a gay gym, i could see it being normal, but not at camp, not at school and not at a health club.
ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us
June 7th, 2011, 11:10 PM
Hey Caleb,
I am 13, and Bi as well, Don't worry about the hair man. I am sure the other boys are worried just as you are. Be proud of your body man.
As far as the Erections go, you will get them, I am sure, however you won't be the only one with them, this is natural, just don't over react to it and all will be good.
Hope this helped you a bit.
have fun at Camp :yes:
abcd1234
June 8th, 2011, 12:16 AM
most camps these days have separate stalls for showering
but if it is a group area, just try to go fast and think about cooking your favorite food
and if ya get an erection, realize it happens to everyone, and try to not get too embarassed
Mezlo
June 8th, 2011, 12:40 AM
If anyone does say anything, you gotta just shrug it off and act like it's no big deal (which is true). Only if you make a big deal out of it and get defensive is anyone else likely to bug you about it, and chances are good no one would bug you about it, anyway. Lots of guys worry about this same stuff until they're comfortable enough just to not care. Have fun at camp!
Mysterious Skin
June 8th, 2011, 02:57 AM
Dont Let others Bring you down.
Your Only 13 Give your body time to grow.
I'd Rather Have little hair than alot.
( Im listening to Hair By Lady Gaga As i write this)
spoke
June 8th, 2011, 12:53 PM
wow, you guys are nuts because i'm 13 and have been showering after pe for some time and if someone got an erection, they'd be called gay in a heart beat. like forever...
as for hair, no one really will care, but don't get an erection. if you feel one coming on, rinse off as fast as you can and get dressed and get out.
i gotta call shenanigans on the poster who say not to worry about it and other guys will get them. I've taken hundreds of showers in shower rooms, no stalls, no privacy, nothing. For two years every day at school and a lot of times at a health club and I've seen ONE erection and that kid is still picked on over a year later.
honestly, to the other posters, you really think it's not a big deal for a 13 year old? no way. maybe at a gay gym, i could see it being normal, but not at camp, not at school and not at a health club.
i have been taking group showers at school for 3 years and have never seen another boy get an erection, or even heard of it happening.
BTW, i'm 14 and just started getting some fuzz on my arms and legs and still only a small patch of hair above my penis and i don't get teased about it.
mytmouse
June 8th, 2011, 02:10 PM
Besides, I think i remember you posting your sizes in a different thread and you're above average aren't you? If that's the case maybe the other boys will be noticing that and jealous of that and not your lack of hair.
TrackKid29
June 8th, 2011, 06:59 PM
Yea your fine, dont worry
lacrosselover
June 9th, 2011, 05:49 PM
yeah im almost 7 with an erection but ive regained my confidence because my friend and i were changing and he says hes 100 percent straight but when i began to undress he got an erection and i got one too and we didnt even acknowledge it
mikeymike
June 11th, 2011, 01:54 AM
You are perfectly normal, just like everyone else. No need to worry
JohnFitz
June 12th, 2011, 06:05 PM
im going to camp soon and im very worried about my body in the showers
i have very little hair and i dont want to be the only one
im 13
is it normal to be hairless except for pubes?
also im bisexual so im worried about erections
should i be worried?
Your 13 and I would think everyone else is in the same age range. Some will have more hair then you and some wont. Your still in puberty so your going to get hair other places. We sometimes get hard in the shower but it's no big deal.
markus
June 12th, 2011, 07:41 PM
wre have to have showers in school,. Im really late and I got nothing either. Sometimes i get teased but i stopped caring but it makes me mad i got nothing yet
Tristen
June 27th, 2011, 04:12 PM
wre have to have showers in school,. Im really late and I got nothing either. Sometimes i get teased but i stopped caring but it makes me mad i got nothing yet
people shouldnt tease bout that stuff.
BIGDaddy
June 27th, 2011, 04:25 PM
How was camp?
nanselot
June 28th, 2011, 01:19 PM
camps always have curtains, face the wall, in case they see trrough.
Thanatos
June 28th, 2011, 01:25 PM
Theres always a bit of joking around about less hair/erections, but guys know that shit happens so if you dont make a big deal out of it, no one else will either.
I will say however I've been showering 4 times a week with hockey for 4 years and have seen one person get an erection, and then there were some chuckles but we didnt really acknowledge it. I have always been worried about getting one but havent ever yet despite finding naked guys arousing. When you are all in there and talking and joking around you dont even think about erections or anything sexual
Josh233
June 28th, 2011, 03:15 PM
u shouldnt be worried man. just enjoy it
lacrosselover
July 2nd, 2011, 11:24 AM
thanks guys camp was really fun and i got one erection and i was undressing with my friend in our room and he didt acknowledge cus he had one too!
Ben Michael
July 2nd, 2011, 11:36 AM
Yeah don't worry about it I just started to get leg and pit hair and I'm 14 and about the boners just say that you were thinking about your gf or bf or whoever you like and I bet they all have boners too so don't be ashamed
prob1996
July 2nd, 2011, 05:21 PM
thanks guys camp was really fun and i got one erection and i was undressing with my friend in our room and he didt acknowledge cus he had one too!
See no big deal. happens to everyone at one point or another. Enjoy! Some of my best times were at camp. ;)
zayn
July 2nd, 2011, 05:34 PM
yeah its normal dont worry about it just close your eyes and forget about it all
DJZS
July 2nd, 2011, 08:24 PM
Its totally normal :) Dont worry, just be calm :)
Anthony115
July 4th, 2011, 10:14 PM
Don't worry..there are tons of people who are hairless.
just don't think about the boys and you won't get a boner..
Joey_7
July 25th, 2011, 09:14 PM
i thought the same thing and most of the other kids where the same way. and if the kids without hair made fun of me i said "well im more grown-up than you"
Mitch James Smith
July 26th, 2011, 03:44 PM
just rember if you drop the soap bend at the knees not the hips or you migt get a big hard penis up your ass
EarlSweatshirt
July 26th, 2011, 04:21 PM
Don't be worried everyone hits puberty at different stages.
I'm 16 and I wouldn't consider myself as a hairy person. I don't have much body hair. As for the erections, You'll see plenty of other guys get them just go to the corner or something it's perfectly fine it's happened me numerous times. Just don't make a scene and people will respect that.
jtk339
July 26th, 2011, 05:36 PM
i have been taking group showers at school for 3 years and have never seen another boy get an erection, or even heard of it happening.
BTW, i'm 14 and just started getting some fuzz on my arms and legs and still only a small patch of hair above my penis and i don't get teased about it.
^^^ same here dw everyone develops at different times and noone would be looking that closely
giggles
July 28th, 2011, 04:28 PM
ur fine!
Santiago22
July 28th, 2011, 05:55 PM
Everyone goes through puberty at their own rate, your just fine. I think if you get a boner that you should be proud of it. I'm sure that some other guys will have boners to.
Jstr
July 28th, 2011, 06:03 PM
yea what they said but DUDE other boys are gonna look at other people penises your not goonna be the only one with a boner
mikephelps
July 28th, 2011, 08:36 PM
At least you got pubes I don't even have them yet and I'm 14. And don't worry about boners other guys are gonna get them too
Idek912
July 29th, 2011, 11:12 PM
If you don't have alot of hair, if someone asks just say you shaved or trimmed it
Orton220
July 29th, 2011, 11:40 PM
Dont worry about erections. Im bi and in my experience, when there are alot of people taking showers, its chaotic and distracting from the sexual part. Dont worry about the hair, but you could shave it, and so it would look like u purposely dont have hair, and most guys shave later in their teens so u would be ahead of the game :)
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