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ackmedsgirl666
June 6th, 2011, 08:53 PM
idk if this makes sense but i want some input
i am straight with the exception of my gf....
can anybody give me input i mean i have come to realize that i like men but not women but i dont feel this way about my gf and she is a girl
im soo confused :(
Mewp
June 6th, 2011, 10:55 PM
Sure, it's a trope. (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Ptitles8ehi15xdv34?from=Main.IfItsYouItsOkay)
Jawbreaker
June 6th, 2011, 10:57 PM
It makes sense. It may just mean that given some very, very specific conditions, you ARE attracted to the same-sex. Or it can just mean that your romantic (that is, the intimate and emotional aspects of your relationship) so outweigh your sexual preferences that really, sexuality is beyond the point. Think of sexuality more like a general guideline than a defining feature of you set in stone. I also suggest that in your case, you stop trying to label yourself. For some people it may help but I think your sexuality is one of those that there's no single term that completely captures it that there's really no point in it.
Parlement
June 7th, 2011, 12:32 AM
It makes sense. It may just mean that given some very, very specific conditions, you ARE attracted to the same-sex. Or it can just mean that your romantic (that is, the intimate and emotional aspects of your relationship) so outweigh your sexual preferences that really, sexuality is beyond the point. Think of sexuality more like a general guideline than a defining feature of you set in stone. I also suggest that in your case, you stop trying to label yourself. For some people it may help but I think your sexuality is one of those that there's no single term that completely captures it that there's really no point in it.

That ^^
ackmedsgirl666
June 7th, 2011, 10:25 AM
ok that makes more sense
i always defined myself as a lesbian but it just got so outta hand and i didnt know what to make of myself. i explained to my gf how i am feeling and somehow she understood
Parlement
June 7th, 2011, 02:15 PM
That's good to hear!
ackmedsgirl666
June 8th, 2011, 09:58 AM
ya but she is still concerned because she was considering and going by a transman but now she gave up on it after i told her how i feel