Andy your a star!

[JackShephard]

So, I was thinking the other day... I want to come out. But the only thing holding me back is my best friend. She is very much against the idea of gay sex. And she is a bit ignorant when it comes to that. But I love her so much. I can lose her. I think I actually might. But then again, we have been through SO much. How could she ever turn me away? I have never had such a close friend. If I tell her I'm bi, I am afraid that she would get mad that I haven't told her.

Aaaaarrrrrgggggg! I wanted to get the word out because there is this guy I kinda like. He doesn't know in bi, but I want to give this a shot. I know that he likes to flirt with me. I act like im not interested in men. But im very interested in him. And I can't because I'm not out. So, it's her, my best friend EVER! or him. Can I have both?

[Weeping]

If you're as awesome friends as it sounds, I think she'll be able to accept it. (:

[Parlement]

And if she doesn't accept you for who you are, than she isn't as good of a friend as you thought in the first place. And perhaps it's time to leave her in the dust.

[JackShephard]

I couldn't ever just forget about her. She really is such a huge part of my life. And I know people say that but I mean it. Honestly, I wish I wasn't bi, but there is nothing I can do. I have no clue what she will think/react. We where jokingly exploring the hypothetical that her boyfriend was bi once and she at one point said "If I found out you where bi, I think I'd still be with your gay ass" and then laughed it off. So I don't know. At this point, I can definitely say that I am a more important person to her than he is. We have known each other forever and she just got with him. She at one point told me that if there where ever a choice she had to make between he and I, it would be me.

[Parlement]

Just say it. If she's you're friend like she says she is, then she won't care at all.

[MustangRacer35]

You could try to bring it up hypothetically again and go from there. But you did say that she "jokingly" said she would still be with you if you were bi so maybe she means it. Just try to talk to her and bring it up.

[Nelson]

Just do it man, If she is as close as you think, she will accept you, a tip, just dont talk about sex with her, if thats her only problem, you should be fine :)

[JackShephard]

I'm going to break the ice with a joke. Something like "bla bla bla, if I where gay"

[Parlement]

Lol. Good idea.