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[Silentkink]

Hey guys, this hasn't been bugging me for awhile, but over a sudden it started again. Also if this doesn't belong here please move it, but back on topic. I moved about a year and a half ago, and before I moved I really liked this girl, and when I say this I mean I think I loved her because I have never felt the same about a girl since. There is only one problem I never got to tell her before I moved down here, and I have lost all contact with her, and it was really been bugging me lately and I do not know what to do about it. I like this girl down here, and plan to ask her out soon, but I do not want me feelings for this other girl to get in the way of my relationship with my girlfriend, so I do now know what to do about this. Is there someway to get over this, or should I find a way to tell this girl my feelings for her. Thanks guys, everyone on here, has been super awesome to me, and I hope you can give me responses about this, thanks again.

[Dimitri]

I think you need to follow your heart, HONESTLY I think you need to make this decision based on what you think, we cannot really help you with this. If you think you really need ot tell the other girl that you like her then do it and if you think you should ask this girl out then do it.

[THEtechGEEK]

this is difficult... Try to get in touch with the old girl....

EDIT: "get in touch with the original girl"
Sorry the original sounded really weird.

[Silentkink]

I think you need to follow your heart, HONESTLY I think you need to make this decision based on what you think, we cannot really help you with this. If you think you really need ot tell the other girl that you like her then do it and if you think you should ask this girl out then do it.

Yeah I know this, but there is one problem my heart tells me to do both things right now. For the longest while it was trying to get to know the girl that I like now, and pushing the old girl away, but recently I saw her name(while not her's but the same first name) on a website, and all my emotions for her came back. So right now I think it is best to forget her, and focus on this new girl, because in my opinion life is like a book, and it is time for the old chapter to end, and a new one to start.

[kdddd]

Chris, I personally think that even if you tell this original girl your feelings for her, that you would have the same problem. At this point in your life she was the person you had the strongest feelings for. You may have feelings just as strong for the girl your planning on asking out, once your further into your relationship. I mean I still have feelings for my first girl friend even though im not dating her. But not in an unhealthy way , so you may still have feelings for her even while in a relationship with someone else. thats just my opinion

[THEtechGEEK]

There's no way you can get in touch with her?

[Silentkink]

There's no way you can get in touch with her?

I do not have her phone number, and have none of her friends number's, so that option is gone. I know she has a facebook, but I do not have one because I do not like what my friends talk about on facebook. So that option is also gone, and that is all of the options that I can think of.

[kdddd]

I do not have her phone number, and have none of her friends number's, so that option is gone. I know she has a facebook, but I do not have one because I do not like what my friends talk about on facebook. So that option is also gone, and that is all of the options that I can think of.


You might be able to look at her Facebook profile for a phone number with out having an account. I'm not sure though

[THEtechGEEK]

I do not have her phone number, and have none of her friends number's, so that option is gone. I know she has a facebook, but I do not have one because I do not like what my friends talk about on facebook. So that option is also gone, and that is all of the options that I can think of.

Yeah.... hmm. Well. I must confess:lol:- I've never really had a 2-way relationship going...:( I liked this girl, but she didnt like me. Anyway I'm guessing I don't know that "feeling" of intense love that you are feeling. Basically what I would do in that situation is figure: hey I don't have any chance of getting in contact with her, so I might as well move on with my life, and just remember that it's not my destiny to be with her. Life happens.
Whatever happens, happens and you can't change that. If you think you should get in touch with her, then do it. If you think you should move on, do that.
It's all whatever you want to do.

Good luck!:)

Rep points always appreciated.....:yeah:

[Silentkink]

You might be able to look at her Facebook profile for a phone number with out having an account. I'm not sure though

I will check that out, and if I can while then my problem is solved. Also I love your avatar with charlie brown, and your signature is always so uplifting to me, just thought I would share that.

[kdddd]

I will check that out, and if I can while then my problem is solved. Also I love your avatar with charlie brown, and your signature is always so uplifting to me, just thought I would share that.

I hope everything works out for you bro. Thanks yea I love my avatar I think it s so funny, totally something Charlie Brown would do haha.

Thanks my signature means a lot to me really, I have some things in my life that most people would think is horrible, but the way i stay positive is because i've seen people who have things even worse and are happy and if they can then i can, you know? I'm glad its uplifting to you thought.

If you ever want to talk I'm always up for it, i love talking to people so just pm or vm if you want to

[THEtechGEEK]

Yes, nice signature kdddd!

[Silentkink]

Ok I just looked her up on facebook, and found her first try, yeah! Just one problem when I used to have a facebook and see her in person I would get this crazy feeling that I can not describe, but when I just saw her profile picture, I was shocked at what I saw, somebody that is totally different, and not what I remember at all. I mean it is not that she isn't attractive, but she just doesn't seem like the type of girl that I would fall for anymore. I still do have those feeling deep in my heart for the old her, but now that I have seen what she looks like now, I am glad that I have no way of talking to her, because it is time to move onto my new hopefully girlfriend. Thanks guys for all the help, and I guess my saying is still true here, life is like a book each chapter is different and every chapter has to end, so this is both the end of a chapter and hopefully the start of a new one. Thanks guys for all the amazing help on this topic and I knew that you guys would be helpful.

[kdddd]

I'm glad you figured it out dude. Good luck with this girl you like!

[THEtechGEEK]

ya, good luck and thanks for the rep!

[imcool_17]

dude just follow your heart. Whichever girl you like more then go ahead and pursue it. but if the girl lives far away and you kno you may never see her again, then you might have to forget about her dude. just follow your heart.

[Dimitri]

Yeah I know this, but there is one problem my heart tells me to do both things right now. For the longest while it was trying to get to know the girl that I like now, and pushing the old girl away, but recently I saw her name(while not her's but the same first name) on a website, and all my emotions for her came back. So right now I think it is best to forget her, and focus on this new girl, because in my opinion life is like a book, and it is time for the old chapter to end, and a new one to start.
(I have to agree with you, go for the new girl.

[mytmouse]

Dude, we're all young and will likely have many crushes which seem like love but really aren't. I say focus on the new girl and try to tell yourself if the other one was meant to be then it would have, especially now that you've seen a current facebook. It may be tough but pur her behind you and focus on the present. Good luck man, I bet it all works out for the good.

[Kuervo]

well, try get in touch with her, atleast try cause u like tht girl alot. but at the same time u like the other girl. well, all i can say is, most likely you wont see the other girl again, maybe someday. but what you could do is try to experiment by dating other girls to see if u can forget the other one, see where im trying to go here?

you could also wait until u see her, but who knows when that would be. and if u still have those same feelings for her if u se her again, what if she has a bf. think all the possibilities out. but what i would do is date the girl and see what happens, u might end up liking her more :)

hopefully i made sense lol

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