LuckyLuke
June 5th, 2011, 06:16 PM
Hello everyone my name's Luke, I'm a 17 year old guy, and I just recently had my first kiss! :D but there's a problem...
Prior to the girl I'm dating right now, I've never been in a relationship, kissed a girl, or even held hands. Two years ago I weighed a LOT more than I do now (lost 80 pounds through hard work!) and because of that, I never really had the confidence to date anyone because I felt no one would find me attractive.
But now I'm with this girl I REALLY, really like. She's incredibly intelligent, beautiful, and loves my sassy, obnoxious sense of humor. But because of my lack of self confidence, I'm really bad at the physical ques :(. We've been on over 7 dates and I've just recently begun to hold her hand, which took a huge push for me to do, and we've only had two quick kisses.
I'd love to move on in the relationship and gain the confidence to cuddle or kiss longer but my self esteem/confidence is holding me back! Normally, I'm the guy that can speak to the entire school without a stutter but when I see her my knees fall week and I just don't know what to do! :confused:
HELP! PLEASE! What should I do!
Prior to the girl I'm dating right now, I've never been in a relationship, kissed a girl, or even held hands. Two years ago I weighed a LOT more than I do now (lost 80 pounds through hard work!) and because of that, I never really had the confidence to date anyone because I felt no one would find me attractive.
But now I'm with this girl I REALLY, really like. She's incredibly intelligent, beautiful, and loves my sassy, obnoxious sense of humor. But because of my lack of self confidence, I'm really bad at the physical ques :(. We've been on over 7 dates and I've just recently begun to hold her hand, which took a huge push for me to do, and we've only had two quick kisses.
I'd love to move on in the relationship and gain the confidence to cuddle or kiss longer but my self esteem/confidence is holding me back! Normally, I'm the guy that can speak to the entire school without a stutter but when I see her my knees fall week and I just don't know what to do! :confused:
HELP! PLEASE! What should I do!