I need some help

[beardedboy]

To be honest, I don't know if I am gay, straight, or bi. I know most of you are going to say something like "only you will know for sure", but the problem is that I don't know. I would rather look at boys to masturbate, but I only see me with a woman for the rest of my life. I don't want to give or get anal from a man, but I would like to jack eachother off. I wouldn't say that vagina's creep me out, but I have never seen one in person in a sexual way before. I am completely cool if I am gay, my school isn't one of those complete hater schools, so I it isn't that so much, but I don't see myself marrying a man, or having sex with a woman. Am I destined to be alone?? If anyone has been in my predicament, please let me know. I would love to hear from you.

Thanks,
Bryan

PS. You know how women in the movies always say that the good guys are either gay or married, well, I think all the good-looking guys are straight, wtf

[Parlement]

Wanting to masturbate with a man is completely normal. It's just being experimental, which a lot of guys going through puberty do. Wanting to do so is nothing wrong.

I wouldn't say you're gay, just curious.

And as to not having sex with a man, or women, maybe you're just one of those people that don't like either. There are people like that out there.

[beardedboy]

Thanks Parlement. Part of me wants to be bi, but part of me wonders why I would be. I would much rather see some boy naked that is my age than an adult or a girl for that matter. I just don't want to get into a female relationship if I am only going to feel uncomfortable. But then there is the problem of no openly gay/bi guys in my school, so I am forced to make friends on this website or facebook. All the boys that I feel I have a sexual attraction for are atleast playing on the fact that they are straight, so I can't ask them. I do try to get them over to my house some how, in the mere chance that I will be able to see them naked. It never works though.

[Parlement]

Who knows, they could be playing the straight card in front of other people.

When they are at your house, just ask them "have you ever thought about doing anything with a guy" And see what their answer is. If it's no, leave it at that. If it's yes, then there is your oppertunity.

Make sure it's with somebody you trust, and with somebody that trusts you.

[beardedboy]

Thanks for you infinite wisdom :) I sent you a friend request btw. :)

[Parlement]

I wouldn't say "Infinite wisdom" because well, that just wouldn't be correct.

I'm just good at this sexuality stuff, because well, i've gone through it.

Also, if you're going to ask a friend to experiment with you, don't be afraid to. Most guys think about this stuff a lot, and an oppertunity to do this sort of stuff would probably be acted apon in a quick answer (yes).

but if they say no, play it off as a joke, and they will never suspect :)

[Infidelitas]

I :locked: duplicate thread in P101.

[Parlement]

Thats cool. I like this one better. :P