Nobody Understand my Situation!! :/

[High]

Lastnight I had my 14th Birthday party and I invited over six of my friends over, everything went great we were having fun, had an airsoft war and a fire. But then I went in the house for a bit and I came outside and one of my friend was pissed off and started chasing me, I got sorta scared so I locked myself in a shed (I live on a farm btw) I knew I couldn't stay in there forever so I manned up and walked to the house where everyone else was.
When I walked up my friend Joe who is 6"2' and is way bigger and stronger then me started pushing me and was pissed. He was claiming I was talking about how his girlfriend had a nice ass and that I could get her anyday. He socked me in the jaw with a hook shot and I fell to the ground. I ran in the house and went up to bed. A few minutes later I started crying cause I was so frustrated, I texted my best friend to come talk to me and he told me 3 people were leaving and they started walking home.
When I was crying I walked outside and told Joe that I never said anything about his girlfriend and that I respect her and him. He replied "I don't give a fuck I'm sick of your bullshit" So I just said Fuck you and told him to leave. He left, 2 of my friends went with him!!! Then it just got worse, the next few days I've gotten 4 messages from different people who I thought were my friends saying "Hahaha you pussy you cried cause Joe hit you!!" It's really bringing me down.
I'm just really upset cause that's not the reason I cried, I was just so depressed and frustrated about it I starting having an emotional breakdown. i don't know what to do, I'm sad cause I just lost a great friend and two other friends. But I wanted to fight back..but it's an unfair match and I know I would get my ass beat cause he's so big. I don't know what to do I've been so depressed and paranoid about it I think about it all the time now..vt please help me I need some advice or something

[Quick_Sylver]

Calm down. Take a few deep breaths. Close your eyes and just breath. Let everything drip out of your mind, to your hands. Shake your hands off. Open your eyes. Lift your chin in the air and be honest. Tell your part.

And then walk away from it. Ignore the taunts, keep your chin in the air and move on. Life happens. You deal with it, and you're given a new task. You'll be alright. You're okay, you're safe. Let go of it.

[High]

Calm down. Take a few deep breaths. Close your eyes and just breath. Let everything drip out of your mind, to your hands. Shake your hands off. Open your eyes. Lift your chin in the air and be honest. Tell your part.

And then walk away from it. Ignore the taunts, keep your chin in the air and move on. Life happens. You deal with it, and you're given a new task. You'll be alright. You're okay, you're safe. Let go of it.

I try to do this, But I can't I just lost 3 people who I thought where my friends in just a flash. Everyday I get reminded cause of the text and facebook messages "Hahaha you cried" and that bullshit. It's to hard to let go cause I'm not use to this stuff.

[Quick_Sylver]

I try to do this, But I can't I just lost 3 people who I thought where my friends in just a flash. Everyday I get reminded cause of the text and facebook messages "Hahaha you cried" and that bullshit. It's to hard to let go cause I'm not use to this stuff.

Then delete them, block them and move on. They left, you don't need to let them control you.

[Contra]

I agree with Becky, if they did that to you, then they weren't good friends. You should stick to the ones that actually stayed with you and supported you. I know it's hard to see your friends leaving, but sometimes it's the best you can do.

Good luck :)

[LifeisLife]

I know it's hard and all but just dont go on facebook for a little while then (like a week maximum) or on whatever website you use and let everybody just cool down and talk to Joe and your other 2 friends about what happened later.

[Spock]

well i guess the r not ur friends

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

Hey man, I know how you feel here, however if they acted like that they were never your true friends man. Friends don't hurt you. I suggest you lift up your head, and move on. You are better than that, and don't sink to their level. Delete them, and I'm sure you will make better friends. Stay Positive and focused.

[Donkey]

I understand your situation :)

Sometimes you get these indicators as to who are your real friends are, as cliché as it may sound. It's not a nice experience, but it's definitely a good one - in the end you'll have much better friends who will stay by you through anything. In the long run, seeing their true colours will be a good thing.

[Speedy29]

It may not seem like it but in reality its not as bad as it seems. now u realize that these people arent your real friends. ignore what people say, as long as you know the truth thats all that matters dont worry bout it man

[PoseidonX43]

if ur friends treat u like that F*** them. don't let it bother u. ive had this happen nomers times it does not get me down. block them, delete them. do watever u can, and if it happens agin see if ur parents can do anything. hope i helped.

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[jake14]

it's weird i read this today cause.. well this isn't about me soo.. ill tell you how you can deal with the problem, if your "friends" treat you that way they aren't real friends. friends come and go life dosen't, don't sweat it you will find new friends ignore them. theres other ways to take out your anger for example when im frustrated i go to the gym or shoot hoops maybe even listen to some music. let them go foucus on what really matters to you. you should check out the song by The Fray called How To Save a Life it's my favorite song when im frustrated im acuattly listening to it now. lol good luck :)

[SuperSuraj]

This has actually happened to me, minus the getting hit part. Here's what i think really happened..
1) they arent really your friends, real friends don't go from having a good time to hitting you in the face in like 5 minutes
2) since you were gone, one of the people there (obvs someone who left with joe) was the one who started talking shit behind your back and thats stupid and childish

Idk if this is helpful, but talking it out worked for me, but it tooks weeks for everything to settle down but now he's my best friend again so there's hope for you... and if you don't feel comfortable with that, then like becky said just delete them or block them on fb and your phone and get new better friends, you seem like a nice guy and obviously deserve better

[Derek951]

As hurt and confused as you are, that dude really did you a favor. In one night he showed you who your real friends are.

Was this guy drunk or high at the time? Dudes that are that jealous are just bad news.