Knowing sexuality?

[Xjam360]

(btw I'm posting this in boys because boys tend to grow ltr than girls)

I'm a 14 year old dude and I'm unsure of my sexuality. I'm pretty far into puberty but I'm not sure: I think I'm bi or gay cause I like watching gay porn and checking out guys but I sometimes check out girls too.

What age did you find out your sexuality and I'm I growing ok even though I'm that far and I don't know???

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

It was later for me..It comes down to emotions how you feel about the same or opposite sex, mentally. If you are both physically and mentally attracted to either or the same then you know. But don't just think on the physical side here, watching gay porn does not make you gay (it makes you curious at best) but being mentally attracted AND physically pretty much assures you that your at least bi. Labels are just that.... and it is hard to do when your a teen and growing and experiencing new things daily. I say don't worry about it, let it play out and experiment and grow and you will ultimately find out. Good Luck !!

[Quick_Sylver]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

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[Jawbreaker]

I think I'm bisexual. I came to admit it a few weeks ago, but I'm still a bit sketchy about it. You seem to be on the same path as me. I suggest that you just try not to label yourself and just don't try and restrict your thoughts either. Just go with what you like and, if along the way a label fits you, then great! If not, don't worry about it.

At any rate, from my personal experiences, you may get a few vague urges early on but they develop over time. My only suggestion would be: be comfortable with whatever you are.

I know I'm being really vague, but that's because I'm not you! I can't tell much more than this, but I hope it helps.

[Mysterious Skin]

I'm Gay. I like gay porn i like guys both Physically and Emotionally.
I knew when i was 12.
I came to accept it straight away.
But everyone comes to terms with their sexuality at different times.
Youll Know when your ready.

[Mewp]

I got my stuff sorted out pretty late: my first experience with another guy was when I was 17 and pretty hammered - I loved it (never considered myself anything other than hetro before hand). I went through a period of referring to myself as bi-sexual before coming to the conclusion that given a choice, I much rather be involved with other men - although there the odd chick I find cute and endearing, physically it's just not comparable.

[Harley Quinn]

(btw I'm posting this in boys because boys tend to grow ltr than girls)

I'm a 14 year old dude and I'm unsure of my sexuality. I'm pretty far into puberty but I'm not sure: I think I'm bi or gay cause I like watching gay porn and checking out guys but I sometimes check out girls too.

What age did you find out your sexuality and I'm I growing ok even though I'm that far and I don't know???

Firstly i'd just like to say; just because you're watching gay porn and you like it doesn't automatically make you gay. Also, it depends on if you can see yourself being in a relationship with either a male or a female and it wouldn't bother you. Puberty doesn't really have anything to do with it, you are what you are regardless. I always knew I was a lesbian, but didn't really deal with it till I was around 12/13.

[Tristin.]

iv always know tbh, i found it weird when my brother said a girl was hot, id see she was pretty, but nothing more. i came out at 12/13. if you can see yourself in a relationship with a boy, then yes you are probaboly gay or bi

[HOLEinyoursoul]

I kinda just accepted myself this year and im 16 and bi. lol plus i went to an all guys school this year :P Um yeah, yer probably bi or something i dunno. Then again, yer only 14. And like I always say, I don't believe there is a solid definition for sexualities. It's always a mixture, some people choose not to address it.

[beardedboy]

I am trying to figure it out too. Physically and emotionally I can see myself with a man, to a certain extent, and it is the same for women but the opposites. I am 17 and I don't have a clue yet. So be patient and don't label yourself just for the sake of a label. Hope that helps in some way. :)

[Parlement]

I've always had a thing for men. The way they appear to me just makes me feel "happy"

As for coming to a conclusion with sexuality, just let it come to you, you'll realize it yourself when you're ready.

[Shenron]

Most people here have given you very good advice and their replies should help you tremendously. I am both physically attracted to men and women. I am also emotionally attracted to both sexes however moreso to guys. When I began to realize this I knew that I was bisexual. You will know what you are when it is time for you to know. I know that you may be confused and you may be uncomfortable with the feelings you are having but thats okay and normal for a guy your age. Just take this with a grain of salt and don't be afraid to explore your sexuality. If you need to talk, feel free to pm me.

[Parlement]

Most people here have given you very good advice and their replies should help you tremendously. I am both physically attracted to men and women. I am also emotionally attracted to both sexes however moreso to guys. When I began to realize this I knew that I was bisexual. You will know what you are when it is time for you to know. I know that you may be confused and you may be uncomfortable with the feelings you are having but thats okay and normal for a guy your age. Just take this with a grain of salt and don't be afraid to explore your sexuality. If you need to talk, feel free to pm me.

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[Fishes]

(btw I'm posting this in boys because boys tend to grow ltr than girls)

I'm a 14 year old dude and I'm unsure of my sexuality. I'm pretty far into puberty but I'm not sure: I think I'm bi or gay cause I like watching gay porn and checking out guys but I sometimes check out girls too.

What age did you find out your sexuality and I'm I growing ok even though I'm that far and I don't know???

im exactly the same dude

[The Dudeh]

Just because you think guys are hot, does not mean you're bi or gay. You have to be attracted to them on an emotional level as well. But you're still only 14, I'm 15 and still not that sure about it - you've got plenty of time to think about it :)

[Parlement]

Just ask yourself if you could ever see yourself in an actuall relationship with a guy.

[man with freaky plan]

I found out at 14. I realised that I had an attraction for both boys and girls in my school.

[boydude]

Dude, you are completely normal. Typically all dudes go through a period where they are curious about other dudes. Its completely normal, and anyway, being a teen dude is about experimenting and finding out what we are.

[Lights]

I knew basically as soon as puberty hit. Took a little while for me to come round to the concept of being gay; I thought I was Bi for a while. I knew from the age of 12/13 I was interested in boys, and I knew at the age of 14 that I was just straight out gay. It takes courage to just man up and say to yourself "You know what? Boobs and girls just aren't my thing." :P

As others have said, you can only define your sexuality when you know the gender that you'd love to have a relationship with, and maybe even live your life with. Watching a certain type of porn or liking to check a few of the same gender out doesn't make you gay, it just suggests you could be in due time.