Friends overing?

[LifeisLife]

Okay so it comes down to this:

My friend says she has easy access to drugs and is constantly overing for me to try it. Ofcourse I'm not going to, I am smart enough not to try it out but WHAT do I do to help her/make it clear that I DO NOT want drugs?

[Rubber]

honestly, theres no way she will ever get the point. People who do drugs usually want their close friends to do it with them. She'll always ask you until she stops herself, so until then, its just an another annoying question you'll have to deal with,

[Sith Lord 13]

Just keep saying no. Eventually, she'll get the message. It just takes time.

[aleexax3]

you should tell her to stop cause you dont want her becoming a drop out of school

[staying_alive]

Okay so it comes down to this:

My friend says she has easy access to drugs and is constantly overing for me to try it. Ofcourse I'm not going to, I am smart enough not to try it out but WHAT do I do to help her/make it clear that I DO NOT want drugs?

The next time she asks, just tell her very sternly that you don't want to do it and you're tired of her bothering you about it. She's not a salesman - she'll get the message if you put some emotion into it.

What drugs is she doing? Drugs have different danger levels that are affected by many factors, so it's important to know if she's smoking weed or shooting heroin.

honestly, theres no way she will ever get the point. People who do drugs usually want their close friends to do it with them. She'll always ask you until she stops herself, so until then, its just an another annoying question you'll have to deal with,

You're incorrect. Despite what you might think, people who do drugs still have emotions and feelings. They can understand when someone doesn't want to do drugs with them. They might offer something to a friend occasionally, but the badgering of friends doesn't last. And don't assume that the OP's friend will "stop" - if it's something like weed or alcohol, they could continue using it (in moderation, of course) for many years with negligible physical side effects and little reason to stop.

you should tell her to stop cause you dont want her becoming a drop out of school

Yes, of course - the classic "do a drug one day, become a high school dropout the next" scenario. Not only does this advice not help the OP's situation as they've already told the friend "no", but it is full of ignorance. DRUGS ≠ DROPOUT. Irresponsible use of drugs, especially hardcore drugs, can result in dropping out, but more likely it results in rehab.

[LifeisLife]

The next time she asks, just tell her very sternly that you don't want to do it and you're tired of her bothering you about it. She's not a salesman - she'll get the message if you put some emotion into it.

What drugs is she doing? Drugs have different danger levels that are affected by many factors, so it's important to know if she's smoking weed or shooting heroin.

She does joints and I think she did crack once. She wants me to come smoke joints with her literally every day after school, so I keep making up excuses because if I tell somebody I dont want something after a long time of them offering, then I should and scream and make a big fuss out of it... (especially with things like these)

[Charleigh]

Tell whoever it is trying to make you try them, to fuck off you are not interested. You dont know whats in them, and you have no idea what you could get addicted to. Make it clear you dont want drugs and if they keep on you will fuck off. There.

[Maeria]

Honestly if she's going to pressure you or try to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, then she isn't a good friend. I'd just keep saying no and see what happens from there.. gl

[Lethe]

She isn't a good friend at all if she is trying to convince you to use illegal drugs with her. You need to be firm and put your foot down. Tell her you will absolutely never use any type of drug with her, and that she'd better stop asking. If she continues to ask you, you need to distance yourself from her.

[User Deleted]

Just be flat out solid with her. That's how you distinguish your fake friends from your real ones.