help! (serious question)

[joshua121]

hello,

i am a long time lurker here, and registered becaue (i might?) have a problem? :confused:

my friend and i take turns sleeping over each other's houses.... when i sleep over at his we lay on his bed with his laptop between us and watch porn on his laptop. well the past 3 times this has led to us masterbating.

the prblem, well, two problems: #1, he's much bigger then me. i am i would say 4 inches, and he's got to be at least 5-6 inches. and i'm older then him, ((he just turned 13, and i'm 13 1/2.) and he gets much harder then me as well.

the #2 problem is he squirts. i mean, like A LOT. i would say at least 5-6 times it goes way up high and it's WICKED thick, but i don't realyl do and if i do just like once or twice and it just kind of dribbles and it's clear. :( ... then after it taes FOREVER for him to go soft, in fact he's ready for another time right away, while i get all tired after and want to sleep.

he tells me that he j/o every day, but i don't really do it during the week much (maybe once or twice), but like i said the past few weeks when we have sleepovers (it takes ahile but i do enjoy it once we go into it) . i want to know should i be concerned thaere is something wrong with me? and also if there is a vitamin i can take or something i can eat or drink that will make me squirt more like he does. i mean, he doesn't say ANYTHING about my size or anything else, and we don't talk about it any other time at school or nething, but i am embarrased about the whole thing, and i'm afraid that thinking about it will make it even worse the next time we go to do it (and i don't want that because i really enjoy it) .

so is there anything to worry about do you think , or am i 100%normal? again this is a serious question (and sorry if i posted in wrong section) . THANKS for ANY HELP! :)

[Dimitri]

Hey man. You just happen to be smaller than him, no real bug deal about ut. Either that or you happen to be a late bloomer in pubrty.

[lacrosselover]

you are completely normal not everyone will be a shooter some people dribble their whole life!

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Its all normal. Puberty and your genes will dictate your ultimate size..you cant change it or take drugs to fix it. Go with the flow... and don't worry about it. If you enjoy it, (and he is obviously as well or he wouldn't want to still do it). I wouldn't fret just enjoy yourself.

[Chris693]

Hey, we are all just different

[Pancakes]

I am 6 inches and I kinda shoot but its white and really thick... BTW 13

[Silentsilver]

Your only 13 and still growing, completely normal for your age. Give it some time and you might start to shoot. I didnt start till about 16. Drink more water and take a multi vitamin to see if that increases the amount you put out

[Ace7]

Nothing's wrong with you, everyones penis is different. Not all people squirt when they cum either. I don't.

[spoke]

my friend is about an inch bigger than me. i squirt once then dribble, he does the same. I stay hard and he goes soft right away, so it only means we're all different and it's OK to be different

[JeydonGT]

everybody is different it is nothing to worry about

[Xjam360]

I mean, you are only about 13- the time to start puberty. Younger just normal the way you are, and he might just have developed a little earlier than you. Nothings wrong with that. Don't take vitamins (not that I know there are any for that purpose anyways) because I think that might be unhealthy.

[Jawbreaker]

It sounds to me that you are just entering puberty. The clear seminal fluid is but one indicator of it. Your lack of a sex drive is also another clue. So does the amount of time it takes for you to get hard...and the lack of it being "fully" hard.

All in all, you're still young and please realize, we do not all enter puberty at the same time and it does NOT occur at the same rate. Do not compare yourself to your friend; there is still plenty of time for your penis to grow and your sexual urges to mature. Enjoy life as it is and just enjoy watching porn with your friend for the time of bonding and shared sexual experiences that it is (you're lucky you have a friend you can be open to it about!).

I really can't say much about the squirting. Up until now, I thought squirting was for everyone, but reading the posts here, it seems that isn't the case. That's nothing to worry about, though. It won't affect your sexual pleasure and if anything, cleaning up will be a lot easier. Let me tell you, squirting is a pain in the neck and always leaves the embarrassing possibility of leaving a spot behind. So look at the bright side :)

Okay, now for penis size and girth. For one, most vaginas are only 3 inches "deep," at most 4. They expand with the size of the penis but really, all you need to please a woman is 3 inches--if that much! Next, if you take a look at the thread on the "Puberty: Boys and Girls" section asking if penis size matters, you'll notice that for the overwhelming amount of girls (and guys if you're into them) the answer is a loud, resonating NO! Most girls are concerned with the emotional aspects of a relationship and will be happy with a person who loves them. While it is true that in pornography the woman will talk about liking "big dicks," this is only to fuel a fantasy. In reality, most girls cannot care less. I've even seen a few interviews with porn stars where they don't have to read a line and they too admit that they don't care about penis size. Please do not feel bad about it.

Girth is a little different. It is true that a wider penis can please a woman more (assuming you're heterosexual). Before you start freaking out, realize that this is not a huge obstacle in your sex life. A woman's sexuality depends on much more than just the penetrative aspects of sex. A lot has to do with foreplay and penis girth DOES NOT predict how good you are there. So long as you know what your partner wants, sex will be a wonderful experience for both of you.

Oh, and a final point: do not be concerned if you don't jack off more than once a week--or at all. That varies from person to person and in no way indicates anything about you.

[joshua121]

well thanks for the replys and yeah i feel better now :) .... i was more then concerned that something was medicaly wrong wit me, but what you all said made sense :)

and by the way i just got back from sleeping over at his, we did it again last nite and this time we did stop and go and it was AMAZING :P .... it was wicked fun and felt SO good to :yes: thanks guys!

[Bubbaluch]

You are normal

[THEtechGEEK]

You are lucky.

And normal.

[Depression]

Dude this is completely normal. And just think you are only thirteen, this means that you are still gonna grow more and still more changes are going to come.

[beardedboy]

Hmmmm.... Well, you are one lucky kid to have someone you are able to do that with. But everyone goes through puberty at different speeds. There is nothing that dictates that.

[Lil Ill]

I don't think its a problem, think its just life no two people are the, not all twins are alike, we can turn out to a complete opposite of our family so don't over think it.

[Parlement]

You have nothing to be worried about. Everybody grows up at different times.

And as for the ejaculation thing, don't worry about that either. Completely normal.

You, are very much so normal.

[abcd1234]

i dont know if this would help, but if you practice jerking off more, you would be more used to the regular stimulation, and may be try to go longer and longerwithout cumming
u would probably be harder ad shoot more, if that is what u want

[Parlement]

i dont know if this would help, but if you practice jerking off more, you would be more used to the regular stimulation, and may be try to go longer and longerwithout cumming
u would probably be harder ad shoot more, if that is what u want

That might help.

[FlyingPanda]

You are quite average. Don't worry about how he jacks off more than you, Just do it however often you feel like it. As far as the squirting goes, some people can do that, some people cant. Beware of any special pill that claims it will make you shoot more that is classic BS.

[Jon Doe 401]

1/2 age difference is not that big when your in puberty. hes just ahead of you.... and the cum problem.... well maybe he gets more aroused. try not to get distracted by thinking about other stuff. just sit back and have fun....

[Orton220]

Completely normal. But you could always practice getting it to shoot. there might be other threads about that, or other places on the internet. dont worry

[Calex]

You are normal. Everyone grows at a different pace. Some are early bloomers and some are late bloomers. Your in the early stage of puberty, you still got a long way to go.