curious

[lacrosselover]

hey guys
im 13 and extremely curious and i really want to expirement with a friend
but all my friends seem to be completely str8 and not open about the subject of sexuality or masturbating
it makes me think im the only one of my friends who is curious and makes me self concious
also it makes me stress out because there is no one i can talk to about my curiousity and feelings
any advice??:confused:

[Goric]

Being curious is absolutely normal, but some people hide it because they don't want to be branded as gay.

[kdddd]

yea being curious is pretty normal, but dude you could just say something like "dude do you jack off" and if they say like wtf! just play it off as a joke you know? but just be yourself and if you want to talk to someone about puberty then just talk to them

[Tristin.]

its normal to be curious, compleatly normal. If you want to experament, just drop a hint, like KDDDDD said. i also hink you will find, they too wil be asking/saying the same things themself, thery just dont want to talk about it for the same reasons as you.

[Jdan360]

I have always been curious from your age and wanted to experiment with friends, this all changed today when I got to experiment with a good friend and it hasn't ruined our relationship at all...
Just wait and see what happens, it will come when a chance is there...

[Parlement]

Just drop some hints to your friends, without completly saying what you want to do.

Start off with a simple "Do you watch porn" if they say yeah, try to start an ongoing conversation.

What about "Do you masturbate" If they say yes, then say "Would you ever with another person"? If they say yes to that, there you go.

There really isn't anything to worry about, the worst that could happen is they could say no, and if they do say no, then just play it off as a joke and everything will go back to normal.

[beardedboy]

I seem to have the same problem. I ask a few friends over facebook if they masterbated and they either didn't respond back, or just said that it was a weird question and moved on. It makes me think that they do and are embarrassed, but I want to do it with them. Oh well, teenagers have a rough life.

[Bubbaluch]

Just ask if they want to comPare sometime

[Andy-D]

I'd just give it time mate. Often it depends on how you get along with the freinds that you are asking this stuff to? For me because I move a lot, I've never had the oppertunity to experiment with n e one because I've never known n e one long enough or at least since I was 5 like some people do.

I wouldnt worry about it at all, if the oppertunity arises, yeah sure try and play it to your advantage; but if it doesnt, dont worry! I've found that vt is a pretty good place to ask questions / for help with any issues that you have. Good luck!

[asnboy]

I seem to be in the same position as you to. We should talk lacrosselover. We should talk about our feeling about it.

[kyler]

ye that a tuff subject dude, there's lots of us like that. there's plenty of cool people on here to chat with abt problems tho

[Lil Ill]

Being curious is absolutely normal, but some people hide it because they don't want to be branded as gay.

true just watch how you approach the subject you don't want negative results/ responses from friends and associates

[Joee]

I have the same issue :S I'm too curious but i'm afraid what my friend might think of me :S

[spoke]

it can be really awkward to talk about. maybe mention something about masturbating and see what their reaction is. but you probably don't want to lose a friend for maybe a one time thing.

[Parlement]

Whoever you ask, just make sure you trust them with that kind of stuff.

[Sogeking]

I don't like the way this thread went.

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