Serious Question

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[DarkNick]

In my opinion it's something normal,natural and necessary if you want to live a healthy life! I don't believe that you have to feel guilty (I'm reffering to everyone with the word ''you'') about it since everyone does it it is part of our everyday life.The good points on it are that it relieves you from the stress,it makes you to start having a sexual interest and sometimes it helps you to improve your fantasy :P
Even people who have taboes 'cause of their religion have done it at least twice in their life...

Sincerely,
Nick

[theUnprofessional]

i found out about it when i was 11 nearly 12 and i felt guily but when i knew my friends do it im not so guilty anymore. Masturbation is good but dont let it make you loose time on more important things(unless you have nothing else to do)

[Fishes]

people just do it cause it feels REALLY good lol

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

No guilt here it is part of life and I imagine guys have been doing it for centuries (considering prostitution is the oldest profession)-- then masturbation HAD to be around before then. I cannot understand why someone would be guilty about pleasuring themselves... it isn't like you are hurting anyone else nor bothering them, unless you do it in public (then you may have a problem, lol)

[Racer4life25]

It feels really good and not to mention it is a great stress reliever!!! lol

[mrbob360]

not does it relieve stress but doing it can relieve sexual desires and stop people from becoming sexually frustated which can be a problem in some severe cases, its also good for the glands as relieves the build up of sperm and allows new sperm to be made properly and also it does feel really good

[lacrosselover]

jacking off relieves stress and calms you down
it is a way for people to have fun on their own
it is also a way to relive sexuall stress and pressure
also if you masturbate then you will not get wet dreams often

[IAMWILL]

Well,
Besides feeling good, there are a few "medical" advantages so to speak.
Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer, which is certainly a good reason/excuse, and it also helps relieve stress, which helps because stress is related to 99% of all serious illnesses.
It's also greatly reduces your chances of having a wet dream or getting a random boner in class or some other awkward place, so it helps socially in general. You might feel more comfortable around your friends if you did it as well, even though that may be the wrong reason to do it it is a kinda good one.
Seeing as your Catholic (I go to a Catholic school so we learn about this) masturbation isn't justified as being wrong in Catholicism. The bible just says a guy pulled out of sex and "spilled his seed on the ground" or something like that.
Overall, there are many more advantages than dissadvantagss to masturbation. You may feel guilty after your first few times doing it, but that feeling goes away quickly.
I say try it for a bit and see how you like it. No one is forcing you inti doing anything.

[Parlement]

You don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's really up to you and totally your choice. If you don't want to, don't, and don't feel preasured to do it just because your friends do.

Yes, it feels good, and yes, it can help relieve stress and relax you. But for some people masturbating just isn't for them.

I'd say give it a try, and if you don't like it, then don't do it.

[kdddd]

yea dude i mean if you dont want to do it then don't. but eventually you prolly will end up doing it because you wont be able to resist the urge. Or you could just try it now. up to you man!

[wally]

orgasm is a natural euphoria that people reach, and masturbation is a good way to get to that euphoria. and there is no reason to feel guilty cause most other guys (and girls for that matter) do masturbate.

[digzchickz]

yeah there is nothing to feel guilty about, most guys do it, it feels good, it relieves stress, it gets you a little more used to the sensations that you experience during sex, and gets your ready sperm out of your system. If you don't cum, your body will get rid of the excess sperm through a wet dream anyways, so yeah, it is a pretty natural body function, but its your choice if you don't want to do it.

[karlwithak]

dont feel guilty it helps u grow faster by creating testasterone and feels awesom and relives stress ect.

[Chris693]

habit

[MustangRacer35]

The good thing is that it can relieve stress and is fun. I use to feel guilty but not so much any more. Try to see it you like it. If you don't want to do it that's up to you.

[DeathAngelsFury]

Well there are many benefiting factors. For one thing, the feeling is sensational. It's unlike anything else, and is one of the best feelings you'll ever have. Second, when going through puberty, sexual tension happens. A lot. It builds up, even if you don't know what sex is. It can cause problems with your emotions, your personality, and just your mind in general. Masturbation can relieve that tension, and help you lead a healthier, more controlled lifestyle. You definitely shouldn't feel guilty. It's completely natural, in every possible way. You should never feel guilty about anything sexual, except rape, of course. The only bad thing is the chance that someone might catch you in the act, and that might be a little awkward. But don't let that stop you from doing it. I've been doing it for 5 years, and I haven't been caught once. And if you think people suspect you of it, don't worry. If it's friends, I'm sure they understand. And if it's family, they're usually quite about it. In short, yes, it's a good idea, and no, there's no reason for guilt.

[Chris95]

Since your signature says you're a very strong Catholic, I thought I'd bring this up. Despite what you may thing, the actual ACT of it is not a sin, so you shouldn't feel guilty about that. However, watching porn probably would be considered a sin, so if you want to clear your conscience of that, don't watch any.

[Mysterious Skin]

Apart From it feeling really good.
It releases chemicals in your brain to help you relax.

[Giles]

It's your choice, there's no medical benefits or issues that should sway your decision.

[Wicked_Syn]

MEH
It's okay when you first start. But then the fun starts to die down after a while.....

[kyle95]

If you don't have the urge to do it, then don't. It's unnatural to force something, even if others are doing it. Eventually you'll have to because as one sage once said, "95% of all males masturbate, the other 5% are liars" :)

[Ace7]

Jacking off comes to different people at different times and no you shouldn't feel guilty about. At first, i did, but it's natural. And just because your friends do it doesn't mean you have to.

[doubled]

ITS AWSOME!!!!!! you should try!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Xjam360]

I think it reduces stress, but when you first start you may feel guilty. Anyways, its ending is really nice, so that's why I do it.

[Bubbaluch]

It just feels so good

[FlyingPanda]

Masturbation is fun, healthy and normal. What it is "good for" is relieving stress, sexual tension AND it prevents nocturnal emissions or wet dreams. This is when you ejaculate in your sleep which is your body's natural way to keep the proverbial juices flowing.

[Calex]

It is something normal. All teen boy jack off, most for fun but some do it to release stress

[Jon Doe 401]

its just there is a really good feeling when your doing it... there is no words to describe the feeling you feel

[Michigan48111]

I don't feel guilty about it and really if you don't do it you will find yourself always having wet dreams. The body is constantly making new sperm and eventually you will run out of room to store it and then that's when you get a wet dream. I think it's a part of life.

[LuckyLuke]

Masturbation and orgasm are two sensational feelings that release stress, stop sexual frustration and urges and prevents certain diseases/ailments such as prostate cancer.

As for feeling guilty, there's no reason you should; it's a completely natural act performed by men and woman since the dawn of time. And if anyone is telling you that your gd won't love you if you masturbate, I find that a bit silly to be honest with you. It was put there for a reason and seeing as we don't want you ending up on 16 and pregnant, I suggest you "release the urge" when you need to.

No one's forcing you to do it, but if you do, it's a wonderful experience.

[boydude]

Dude, jacking off is amazing, but you should do it only if you wanna. You have an amazing rush that comes over your entire body, you lose control, it's wow. I masturbate because I love it, because it is wonderful. :D

[SWMG]

It is really up to you, it has medical and obviously pleasure benefits but to do it or not just depends on how you feel about it

[mikeymike]

Its your own choice, don't feel pressured into doing it

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

This is probably due to your strong religious beliefs. However pretty much everyone does it, or they just lie about not doing it. It's natural and healthy. However it is like anything else that feels good to us, in moderation that is. Too many people let it envelope them.

[Goldilokks]

I just jacked off and its normal all the men i know have done it

[Mike93]

When I first started i felt pretty guilty afterwards, but then I heard my friends did it as well so that helped.. Anyway, do it if u want to and if u don't want to then don't do it.. It's all up to you, but if u start it might be hard to stop again, hehe

[AladdinSane]

Nothing feels better (in my opinion) it also releases endorphins (which make you happy), so you may feel better in general too! I personally never feel guilty about it, why should I?!

[Spock]

u no the only good part about it is the feeling when u r about to explode

[bornthisway]

It feels good, mostly.
Most people don't regret it.
Reduces wet dreams.
It can relax you, if you do it right.

[chris4827]

i wont lie jacking off is one of my favorite things to do. its just that feeling that you get while your doing it and while your finishing that makes you want to do it again and again...at least thats how i feel about it. and no i didnt fell guilty after my first time. im non-religious so i didnt have religion getting in the way. plus theres alot of health benefits. i once had a friend to was super religious and was worried about feeling guilty. after about a year i finally managed to convince him to do it and he was mad afterwards because it took so long for me to convince him :D