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Pancakes
June 2nd, 2011, 03:57 PM
My 9 year old brother asked what happens in puberty I told him the basics and his asked if he could see my penis and I said let me think and I don't know what to do, P.S. I am not the most comfortable naked around younger brothers. But I think I should because I don't want him to ask any of his friends cause it might cause a little problem around his friends families and ours. :what:

achris15mbi
June 2nd, 2011, 04:00 PM
Well if you're brothers and he just wants a look, I dont see a problem in it. Rather have you do it where the situation is controlled then have him look up porn on the internet, or do something with an older boy, or even a boy his age and it could always lead to something worse.
Hope I helped

Anima
June 2nd, 2011, 04:04 PM
dude this looks similiar to another post lol
anyway, if you feel like its ok to show him, then you can show him.
hes just curious dude, anything else u can ask me

mytmouse
June 2nd, 2011, 04:04 PM
If you're not comfortable and you know why he wants to see you maybe you can just show him a puberty book or website so he can see development stage pictures but not of you.

CryWolf
June 2nd, 2011, 04:05 PM
There's another thread very similar to this with a similar situation. Really its probably just curiosity and he trusts you. If you guys are close and you're prepared to answer (the best you can) his questions then there's really no harm in it. He's been seeing you grow and sees you changing so he's naturally curious about it and if it will happen to him. Good luck!

Dimitri
June 2nd, 2011, 04:08 PM
I say that it is completly yp to you and if you do not feel comfortable doing it then I would suggest you do not.

atomsmasher
June 2nd, 2011, 04:24 PM
I think that's fine. Me and my little brother have shared a room forever, so we see each other naked every day. Its never been weird.

Pancakes
June 2nd, 2011, 06:26 PM
Yea it was awkward but he said mines smaller but I told he will grow a lot soon.

Rubber
June 2nd, 2011, 06:57 PM
well if your comfrotable go for it. just whip it out real quick for like 30 secs.but letting him touch it might be crossing the line.

kdddd
June 2nd, 2011, 08:56 PM
yea dude i see what you mean about not waning something to be awkward, seems like you made the right choice

Michigan48111
June 7th, 2011, 10:26 AM
I think he really looks up to your as his big brother and just wants to know things. I think it's ok that you talk to him about stuff and help him learn what's coming. Sorry but sometimes it's the burden of being the big brother. He'll be glad that you answered him.

Bubbaluch
June 7th, 2011, 04:43 PM
As long as yoou are comfortable and you don't get in trouble ur fine

Mezlo
June 8th, 2011, 12:51 AM
Sounds like you did good. I think not making a big deal of it with him is important. His question was normal and no big deal, so I'd treat it that way. You're going to need to be able to talk with him about all sorts of stuff over the next few years, so it's good you've shown him you're open to answering even awkward questions.

ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us
June 8th, 2011, 12:59 AM
Good Job! That is part of being a big Bro. He looks up to you.

Panelguy1
June 8th, 2011, 06:04 PM
If he feels weird about being smaller than you just say things like "I'm just big for my age" or "You'll grow soon"

hollisterboi95
June 8th, 2011, 06:52 PM
i think i read that you already did it, but anyway my brother did the same thing and i just didn't know what to do either i eventually showed him, and now whenever he has some awkward question he comes to me to ask and i tell him. as he grows up the questions will become a little more awkward each time but if you answer them you'll see that you two have a great bond after a while, and he'll respect you for what you have done

Pancakes
June 10th, 2011, 12:18 PM
Yea we talk a lot now and for some reason we asked if we could share a room together but for some reason we get along great but hopefully there's no more showing off lol :)

jake14
June 10th, 2011, 03:04 PM
lol same thing happened to me with my little bro he was 11 tho, it's up to you if you guys are close, dont see why not

Jon Doe 401
June 11th, 2011, 10:47 PM
i would show him.. don't want him to get caught with another bot and have the police involved

Pancakes
June 13th, 2011, 08:43 PM
Yea he's good don't worry

appel1234
June 14th, 2011, 10:38 AM
yrah u should show him

boydude
June 14th, 2011, 11:09 PM
As long as he asked and you are comfortable and it is nothing sexual. It is great that you two have such a great bond that he is comfortable enough to ask to see you naked. It will strengthen your bond and make you two closer. It will be good for him to see an older guy, and it is a positive alternative to the internet or asking people who do not really know the answer. Just be laid back and calm, that will make him feel comfortable. Don't be completely naked at first, work into it. Let him ask questions as you go along, it will be great for you and him, you will be a better role model and he will trust you more. Make sure to not beat around the bush, answer the questions up front and calmly to insure that everything stays comfortable. Let him see everything and do not try to hide anything or he will be uncomfortable, or feel like puberty or the penis or being a guy should be shameful.

Michael Anthony
June 21st, 2011, 12:12 AM
i dont see anything wrong with it. lots of brothers share rooms and see each other naked (like me and my brother)

Pancakes
June 21st, 2011, 09:04 AM
Yessss! My mom is letting us share a room for a week or 2 while his room is remodeled

CodyFox13
June 21st, 2011, 12:36 PM
lucky guy having an older brother!, I have a lil bro 12, and he asked the same sometime ago...is just normal...is your bro, man. he trusts u. Am gay and he is stra8, but he was just curious, and his is bigger than mine, lol!

Irishperson15
June 21st, 2011, 03:46 PM
entirely up to u

Michael Anthony
June 22nd, 2011, 12:41 AM
there's nothing wrong with you showing him your junk. if you guys shared a room you'd be seeing each other naked all the time. me and my little brother share a room and he saw me going through puberty so when his time came he knew what to expect. and we're open with each other and he could ask me questions.

Bradboy13
June 22nd, 2011, 05:33 AM
Just relax wit each other

prob1996
June 22nd, 2011, 07:53 AM
I have an older brother and we used to share a room. There were def some awarkard :rolleyes: moments but he was cool with me asking questions. He helped me out alot.

hmc863
June 22nd, 2011, 08:35 AM
My older old who is 17 we share a room and he helps me though puberty all the time

karlwithak
June 22nd, 2011, 09:34 AM
dude my sisters have seen me naked j/o but ive overcome it and btw congrats for the 2 week room sharing

TacoRocco
November 9th, 2011, 02:25 AM
My brother asked me to see mine before and he is 6 years old, around that curious age. I showed him because it really doesn't matter to me. We sleep in the same room, so it's like whatever. Its not weird to show it to your brother if he is curious.

bwdude15
November 9th, 2011, 11:50 AM
dude...if you think you can then sure...he's just being curious

MrCake
November 9th, 2011, 12:19 PM
I was in the same position, more or less. 11 year old brother wanted to see my fruit and veg. I'm not really bothered. I think when their that age, their smart enough to not go round telling their mates "My big brother showed me his willy! It's like, THIS BIG!!!"
If yuo think about it in their shoes, they would probably feel embraessed by seeing someone else's cock.
Just make sure he say's nothig about it.

Donkey
November 9th, 2011, 03:11 PM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: