My little brother asked if he could see me naked. what do I do

[Life_hard]

Yesterday my mom told me to go hang up my clothes and when I did my little brother was naked (we share rooms and he just got out of the shower). He asked me if he could see me naked and I told him let me think about it. Ok so what do I do he's 9 and I'm 14 (guy). HELP!!!

[Andy-D]

I'm not sure what the relationship between you and your brother is like? Maybe have a quiet word with you mum/dad?

If thats doesnt sound good, have a chat with him directly. Just sit him down and ask him why he's interested in seeing you naked? That could go one of two ways:

1- he's interested in how pubertly / his own development is going and he wants see what kind of stuff is going on in the future (after all you are 5 years older).

2- he may be interested in 'YOU' and wants to just get to know you better. This does NOT mean a sexual relationship, but when he only see's you in clothes all the time it might have just have been playing on his mind.

When and if you talk to him, just make sure that you are sensitive to any problems / misunderstandings that he may have.

Another way you could play it is to 'accidently' walk out naked in the same situation that you saw him naked.

Hope that this helped? :/ and good luck :D

[Anima]

well, considering hes nine ,if you want he can see you naked , but make sure its nothing more and for a short amount of time. Hes just curious to see how hes going to be like when hes your age, so you should just maybe, let your towel slip when getting out of the shower or something. But its up to you, you dont have to at all. anyore questions just ask me lol

[CryWolf]

I'm not sure what the relationship between you and your brother is like? Maybe have a quiet word with you mum/dad?

If thats doesnt sound good, have a chat with him directly. Just sit him down and ask him why he's interested in seeing you naked? That could go one of two ways:

1- he's interested in how pubertly / his own development is going and he wants see what kind of stuff is going on in the future (after all you are 5 years older).

2- he may be interested in 'YOU' and wants to just get to know you better. This does NOT mean a sexual relationship, but when he only see's you in clothes all the time it might have just have been playing on his mind.



When and if you talk to him, just make sure that you are sensitive to any problems / misunderstandings that he may have.

Another way you could play it is to 'accidently' walk out naked in the same situation that you saw him naked.

Hope that this helped? :/ and good luck :D

What he said ^

[mytmouse]

I just answered this in another thread.

[achris15mbi]

I personally think that should be okay. I think you would feel more comfortable knowing that you showed him, rather than an older boy at his school, or a kid his age which can always lead to something more then expected. I think before you do you may want to have a little talk with him about how being naked is private, and that you do not just show your penis to everyone that wants to see.
Hope i helped!

[Cudder]

I don't know... I would say it's it's alright, but the law says other wise.

[JeydonGT]

thats sounds a bit odd but it depends what kind of relationship you have with your brother.

[Ace007]

well if you are sharing the same room he has seem it anyway!! you both look the same anyway...just you are older...

[Hairy14uk]

That's an extremely awkward situation you're in there... Maybe it's just me but I wouldn't agree to it and simply strip off. But considering you share a room it should be easy enough to 'let a towel slip' or something, let him see you but don't be obvious about it because he might get the wrong idea.

I would guess that he's just curious to see what he might be like when he's older and he sees you as the perfect person to do that because you, presumably, have a good relationship.

[Giles]

That's an extremely awkward situation you're in there... Maybe it's just me but I wouldn't agree to it and simply strip off. But considering you share a room it should be easy enough to 'let a towel slip' or something, let him see you but don't be obvious about it because he might get the wrong idea.

I would guess that he's just curious to see what he might be like when he's older and he sees you as the perfect person to do that because you, presumably, have a good relationship.

That ^^

It's your decision and only you can know what sort of relationship you have and if it's appropriate for you to do this. I can understand his curiosity at that age and I'm sure you can too, so you need to decide if it's right for you to show him anything/something.

[kdddd]

Yea bro, I mean it is probably a pretty innocent way that he is asking it. I mean at 9 there isnt that much going on puberty wise (other it does happen in some people that young) He might just want to see what you look like naked. so i mean I dont think it would be that awkward or anything but if you dont feel comfortable with it then dont do it.

[Wicked_Syn]

I'M GOING TO KEEP THIS SIMPLE FOR YOU
I don't think that it's the best idea for you to show him your body naked. The age difference and his maturity level and understanding of puberty and stuff is just to much for him right now to understand. Like if you guys were the same age, I honestly wouldn't really care. but if I were you. No, not okay.

[kyle95]

You're his older bro, set a good example by teaching him appropriate behaviour and by explaining to him why certain things are unacceptable in our society and how innocent curiosity can lead them straight into the arms pedos and pervs.

[Triceratops]

You tell him "no" like a normal guy would. Even telling him that you'll think about it is sick and twisted in my books.

[Pancakes]

Brother asked me samething I showed him fer like 15 seconds. BTW My bro is 9 too

[spartanrob]

I have an brother who is a couple of years older than me and I can see how a 9 year old guy might be geting a little curious. We have our own rooms but share a bathroom. This would never have come up with us because we have always been pretty casual about being naked around each other like one us us is always brushing our teeth while the other is in shower or whatever. We also swim at the Y a lot and shower together there. If he hasn't seen you naked while actually sharing a room you must go out of your way to "hide." I would say just be more casual about changing in front of him rather than saying "OK here is my body you can look." But I think if you make a big deal about him NOT seeing you he's probably going to end up as one of those guys who is paranoid about changing in the locker room at school.

[Chris693]

Just tell him no

[THEtechGEEK]

whatever you want to do

[Parlement]

I have an brother who is a couple of years older than me and I can see how a 9 year old guy might be geting a little curious. We have our own rooms but share a bathroom. This would never have come up with us because we have always been pretty casual about being naked around each other like one us us is always brushing our teeth while the other is in shower or whatever. We also swim at the Y a lot and shower together there. If he hasn't seen you naked while actually sharing a room you must go out of your way to "hide." I would say just be more casual about changing in front of him rather than saying "OK here is my body you can look." But I think if you make a big deal about him NOT seeing you he's probably going to end up as one of those guys who is paranoid about changing in the locker room at school.

That ^^

[volcomdude]

i dont think that it would be a problem as long as you dont make it weird. hes most likely just curious and wants to see someone elses. i dont think its a big deal.

[THEtechGEEK]

What that dude said ^^

[elliot_47]

He's just curious let him see urs so he knows what his is gonna look like.

[paul955]

Just make sure you're prepared in case he goes to your parents and tells them what you did. You're gonna need a good explanation as to why you showed him your body and why you did.

[GeneralLee01]

I guess do so but make sure your not erected :D.

[THEtechGEEK]

Lol!

[FlyingPanda]

He is young. Think about what you knew or didn't know when you were that young. He is certainly curious and getting some information about development might not be such a bad idea. However, if you think you would be really uncomfortable talking about it or whatever just don't do it.

[Michigan48111]

He is likely curious and wants to know what lies ahead. He might have got the idea from a friend of his, who say or noticed something about one of their brothers and your little brother wants to know if you are like his friends older brothers. I don't think there is a problem specially if you share a room, eventually seeing is going to happen.

[adam1995]

I used to share a room with my younger bro... I don't get how he's hasn't seen you naked. We used to see each other all the getting dressed and all that. It wasnever a big deal.

[Bubbaluch]

It's fine just be careful of what u do

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

Well this is a rough situation. As with you I have a younger brother, and the same has happened with me. I approached it this way.
I talked to him about how his body is private, and he needs to respect the privacy of his body as well as the privacy of others. however it is normal to be curious at his age, and he is curious as to what he may look like at your age.
After I talked to my little brother about his body and answered what I could of his questions, he "accidentally" saw me changing. I thought that was the best way to approach it. That way he didn't know that I let him see me, and it gave him time to "see" what he wanted, so he could answer his own questions.
I think if you are too direct with your brother you could scare him, and make him ashamed of his body, or force him to get his answers another way, which could be bad, or make him too nervous to change in the locker room, when it comes time for him to do that.
hope this helped.

[Boxerbriefs96]

THere is a reason why he want to know..you should talk to him and find out why. If he has any questions about puberty, then you should answer them and let him know what it is. After all, you are his older brother.

[abcd1234]

thats so awkward
i guess just do whatever you are comfortable with
if you are close neough where seeing each other naked happens on occasion, it wont be that weird if he sees you
but i wouldnt make an event out of it

[TrackKid29]

i think you should to tao him before u do anything and tell him that being naked is somethin private

[Sogeking]

This isn't puberty related.

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