I Need Help

[airwalker]

OK in 2 months i start my first year of high school i'm really nervous because we have to take showers in front of each other. What if I get turned on when I see another guys penis? and what if they all think i have a baby dick? i'm really scared.....how was your first year high school?:eek::what:

[cwwdr95]

There probably guy there with the same size as u don't worry about it

[Liveoak]

I think you're getting too nervous about something that is going to happen months from now that you don't really have any control over, and that is perfectly natural. While not everyone in high school grows up at the same speed, there is no doubt going to be a lot of guys in your same situation that are equally nervous. I was, too, believe me. I just stood up, convinced myself that it wasn't a big deal, stripped off just like everyone else and went in. Sure, there will be guys 3-4 years older than you that are man-sized, but that's the way the school is set up. Long story short, don't sweat it. And, ifyou get hard, do your best to not make a big deal of it and maybe carry a towel with you to hide it as best you can.

[Goric]

Don't worry about in. In secondary school we had to shower naked and the most popular kid got a boner. Don't sweat it, it happens to everyone.

[Sterling26]

hey Collin (awesome name btw), as a senior in high school let me introduce you to four words that basically sum up the high school experience: Nobody Gives A Shit. i see it year after year, freshmen come in all hyper and picking on each other and within a month they're all mellowed out, people are a lot more mature in high school and i'd be incredibly surprised if anyone made a comment towards you if your dick is too small or if you pop a boner. as long as you keep to yourself they will too. hope this helps :)

[Silentkink]

I can't speak personally on this topic because in my high school we do not have to take showers after our gym class, so thankfully I have never had to deal with this, but I will try to answer your question. If you get turned on I would try to hide it ASAP because people in this world are jerks and they will laugh at you, sorry, but this is just the truth. About your penis size, I wouldn't worry most people at your age have the same size penis give or take a little, but there will be some smaller and some larger, you just have to accept your size. I do see people making fun of you for this too because again this is how people our, I sometimes get made fun of for having a small penis, but my close friends know my size, and they do not care. I guess what I am trying to get across is that the jerks will continue to be jerks, but the regular kids and your friends will not acre, and of course do not worry what the other kids think just be yourself because inside you know that you are the best person you can be =). Also most kids will be asking the same questions as yourself, so try not to worry.

[airwalker]

thanks Declan

[mytmouse]

I thought most schools didn't make kids do that anymore but I guess not. I think if you don't make a big deal out of it then the other kids probably won't either. Keep as covered as possible without making a scene but also show that you're confident and not ashamed with what you have if you're exposed.

[high-school108]

this was my first year and i loved it but i never showered in front of people so that might be a bit weird but you could wear your under wear and bring in a extra pair to wear hope i help and good luck with high school!!!!!

[CryWolf]

Yeah dude the town I moved from we had 75 guys in a locker room built for 50, a shower room with 4 sprayers. We walked in lines of two naked while we waited our turn, coz they passed out towels when you were done. It was weird for about one day and then everybody was used to it. Occasionally somebody would pop a boner. Most guys laughed but not meanly. It happens man :). Just relax and be cool and all will be well.

[kdddd]

dude honestly other guys will get turned on by people around them aswell so dont be afraid and im sure you dick isnt as small as you may think it is

[jationlin]

dont worry is not big deal
although i live in the country that we dont shower in school
and they act upon the naked they are so supid

[mytmouse]

Yeah dude the town I moved from we had 75 guys in a locker room built for 50, a shower room with 4 sprayers. We walked in lines of two naked while we waited our turn, coz they passed out towels when you were done. It was weird for about one day and then everybody was used to it. Occasionally somebody would pop a boner. Most guys laughed but not meanly. It happens man :). Just relax and be cool and all will be well.
Damn that would be weird and pretty uncomfortable for me I think.

[Sterling26]

thanks Declan

hey no problem bud :)

[Michigan48111]

I just finished my first year of high school and we had to shower too. At first we were all nervous and a few of the more developed kids made fun of one of the under developed kids but that lasted all of 30 seconds on the first day. By the second day it was no big deal to anyone. Don't worry about it, everyone is different and no two kids in the class will be the same.

[NomSan]

I thought most schools didn't make kids do that anymore but I guess not. I think if you don't make a big deal out of it then the other kids probably won't either. Keep as covered as possible without making a scene but also show that you're confident and not ashamed with what you have if you're exposed.

They do it since 2nd grade here in Norway, it's more hygienic to shower after gym.

But I think it will be fine if you keep you to yourself, and they probably won't make any comments.

[Parlement]

If you get an erection then nobody should really care. I highly doubt that they're going to start a riot just because you got an erection.

Normaly, in the locker room there will be people of all sorts and sizes there. You have nothing to worry about.

[Blind]

Dont worry about it im sure lots of guys feel the same way you do.

[Parlement]

Dont worry about it im sure lots of guys feel the same way you do.

That too.

[Boxerbriefs96]

Its going to be akward the first few times. But after a while, you will get used to them. You are not the only one who is afraid. Other guys in your grade also have the same problem.

[TrackKid29]

There are other people that are going to be worried about the same things so youll be fine, your all teens

[notonhereanymore]

yeah man that would be cool...

[THEtechGEEK]

Dont worry. Im kinda afraid too. I have gym next year in HS.

[LuckyLuke]

It's really not that bad. We're not required to take showers and it's rare someone does, however, no one REALLY says ANYTHING unless it's a joke and if it is, take it in stride and make one back.

[beardedboy]

Ya, stuff happens. I won't lie to you, you will probably get an erection at least once, and there even might be someone who makes fun of you, but the important thing is to not let it get to you. Bullys feed off pain and suffering. The more you show that it bothers you, the more they are going to do it, because in their minds it is working. Just casually shower and get out of there. If you do get a bonor, don't try to hide it (mostly because it is difficult to) but then it will be more obvious to your class mates. Just don't go over the deep end, it isn't the end of the world and you will be fine. :)

[mikeymike]

Dont worry about it man, just go with the flow, there are a lot of other guys in the exact same situation as you I am sure.

[spoke]

we start taking showers in 7th grade so by high school everyone is used to it. and all grades shower together so the mature guys are real noticable. i'm one of the smallest guys (yep, i check) and no one has ever said anything about my size. and after 3 years i've never seen anyone get an erection so i don't think it's that common.

be cofident and try to relax and act like it's no big deal.

[bornthisway]

My school we don't have to take showers but we have to change into P.E clothes. I was nervous too, in case I got aroused by seeing a guy that looked cute or something, lol. It was easy after a couple days. You'll get used to it. Just don't look around and try to be quick if you're that worried that you'll get hard.

[JohnFitz]

OK in 2 months i start my first year of high school i'm really nervous because we have to take showers in front of each other. What if I get turned on when I see another guys penis? and what if they all think i have a baby dick? i'm really scared.....how was your first year high school?:eek::what:

No big deal. We sometimes take showers and sometimes get hard but it's normal. How big are you when you get hard? If they make fun of your dick tell them why are you even looking down there anyway? If it's a big problem you have the option to not take the showers. Have your parents have a meeting with the gym teachers or principal.

[markus]

I was scared the first time but its really ok. It doesnt worry you after a couple of times.

[aaaaa]

Remember that there will be new people like you that are nervous too. When I started my first year, i had to shower naked in front of all the boys and i was really nervous. I have gotten boners a lot in the showers. because when you are going through puberty, a lot of small things like seeing a naked guy turn you on. You must remember that other boys will also get boners. In my school, as all the boys shower naked, we all see each others penises and we see each others getting boners. They make fun of you at first but then you can make fun of them because they are sure to get a boner too. Don't worry, after the first few lessons you will get used to it

[LoginLeo]

Ahh don't worry about it, don't forget that all the other boys have the same thoughts going on in their minds :)

And i don't have showers at school, but i do at my gym...
Nothing special, even though my dick ain't the biggest one, it's normal, and i guess i just like showing off or something...
I dunno... i believe that nature created us with our bodies, and that all the guys have the same stuff down there... So.. don't be shy, i guess :)

[AlexxWins15]

You get over the nerves.

[screammonster123]

some school dont make you take shower it helps me to just think about something else...it might be weird but i just think of a song in my head

[brokengirl16]

well it may freak a boy out if he catchs you staring at his penis haha not to worry though im sure you will be fine theres alot of gays and bi-sexuals at my high school and none of them have ever had a hard time at school, im a girl am straight but there was bi sexual girls in my classes and they where the lovelyest girls ive ever met i used to to changed with them in p.e i didt feel uncomfortable at all you will be fine sweetie keep smiling and enjoy your high school life live it to the full and be who you are people wont think any less of you x

[APWBD]

it isnt mandatory in my school so nobody uses them but we thought we did at first... everyone else in ur grade feels the same way and prob will think ur bigger than them im sure u wont be the smallest or the biggest in ur class

[terbear]

Yeah high school is a big thing. If I were you, I would think about caterpillars and just that. You won't get aroused or anything--it works for me! :D

[Drew Tyler]

OK in 2 months i start my first year of high school i'm really nervous because we have to take showers in front of each other. What if I get turned on when I see another guys penis? and what if they all think i have a baby dick? i'm really scared.....how was your first year high school?:eek::what:

well, if you're worried about it, don't look around. Only focus on what you're doing and YOUR body. And if others say anything, just ask them why are they concerned with your dick size!!

[JJIIYY312]

I have never had this experience because we never HAD to shower but i think you will be fine and if you do get a boner just say to them, "why are you staring at my junk, are you jealous" to be honest you havent got anything to worry about

[Jstr]

Same here but I don't tend to care cause if they make fun of my I'll just be like "why you lookin huh? " yea:D

[emrahcud]

Im in my first year and i take showers all the time. I dont have the biggest dick but nobody mocks ne for it.

[zerosix22]

dont worry dude. its not a competition, everybody has diff sizes. i mean prolly a junior or a senior year will have a weiner smaller than you have. nobody knows :)

[ashdaniel]

just relaxe, dont worry ,nothing wrong, there was someon like u too in the school

[goug16]

I mean even if they look at your dick they probably won't admit to it

[Ace007]

Hey dude I was scared too when I took my first shower with my school mates.. But really no one care on what we look like.. After the few more showers it's was anything to worry about...

[Trinity_15]

they will probs be nervous as well

[Vince A.]

Bro you should seriously watch the movie "I now pronounce you chuck and Larry" no.1 it's funny as shot mo matter what preferences you have and 2 it really does have a lesson to teach

[Core]

I just started highschool this yr, and I was nervous about it too, but there's Gona be some one that's ur size or smaller and everyone's just as worried about it as u r, and if they do say something just say ur a grower and giv a big but believable size, but iv never Ben made fun of 4 a small penis, and I'm party small when flaccid caus a grower hahaha

[you know103]

There is probably gonna be another students with the same size as you or close to it, don't worry about the size and if they say something just ignor them. If you get turn on by seeing someones elses penis don't really worry about it, try not to look if it helps

[rguevara12]

OK in 2 months i start my first year of high school i'm really nervous because we have to take showers in front of each other. What if I get turned on when I see another guys penis? and what if they all think i have a baby dick? i'm really scared.....how was your first year high school?:eek::what:

dont worry, just dont think about them, and about the baby dick, everyones penis size is different so dont worrie

[kaiba]

Oh yea I've seen just about every guy in my school with a boner and they've all seen each others so don't sweat it. You'll be fine