Told Someone?

[Extreme586]

I feel like I'm bi, I have felt this way a long time. I met a boy this year who really just amazes me, and I'm really attracted to him but not just for his looks. So I was wondering when (if ever) would be the best time to tell him how I really feel? I'm in no rush because even though I have known him all year we are still learning a lot about each other.

[Thylacine]

Tell him when your comfortable. I would suggest become good friends and move from there.

[Extreme586]

It usualy takes me a long time to become good friends with people, now that the first year is down hopefully we can progress from there. Kind of a weird year, but being a freshman is nearly over and I know lots of new people because of it. Funny thing is I sit next to him every day in one of my classes, talk about a motivation to come to school. :rolleyes:

[that kid]

Well if you move too quickly it might turn around really fast. Just create a close bond first and get to know him a bit more.

[Extreme586]

Ya, your right, I am crazy for him but I don't want things to end up going in the wrong direction, I'll try to get a friendship going before I get into the detailed stuff. I can't wait to see him tomorrow, he's just the type of kid who puts a smile on your face no matter what mood your in.

[Kuervo]

the same thing is happening to me with this one dude i know. we've become close friends after being in tennis together. he took me out to eat and all and began to like him a lot. we're close friends and all but im not gna tell him till im ready which is wat u shud do as well. ttell him until ur ready.

[Extreme586]

I'm still debating actually telling him if we ever even get to a stage of friendship, but ya first I want to become good friends with him and understand him better before I make a huge leap like this.

[ccrunner]

when you are comfortable telling him other secrets about your life or if you are comfortable doing certain things in front of each other whenever you guys are like one in the same is when i would tell him

[Goric]

Tell him when you're comfortable and ready, take as long as you need!:)