Making a gf out of a friend.

[BOSS]

Theres this girl named Katelyn or Kat as I like to call her. Now me and this girl have been good friends for a while now...but uh I recently had some different feelings for her and she has just recently broke up with her bf and now I have a shot but I don't want to offend her or anything so does any one have any advise on how and WHEN to tell her I like her. Better hurry to I think she's getting suspicious, cause she asked me the other day if I liked her "obviously I said no". Any advise?

[anonymous53]

No time like the present. Tell her now before another guy asks her

[BOSS]

No time like the present. Tell her now before another guy asks her

Ok I'll keep that in mind.

[SkittleBear]

No kidding o.o

[AutumnDae]

My boyfriend and I were friends for...a really long time before we started dating. :)

It turned out that we both were crushing on each other, but we didn't want to make a move in case the feelings weren't returned. Long story short, they were returned, and it turned out to be a wonderful thing!

Go for it! The worst that can happen is that she doesn't feel the same, and then, at least you know.

[Contra]

Well, next time she asks you if you like her, you should say yes! :P
But in case that happens in a long time, you should make a move as soon as possible, or else she may get taken...

[kittylou]

I believe it is better to know. I would tell her that you do like her, but possibly also mention that you don't want to rush her at all if she just broke up with her other bf and then see what she wants from the relationship... it may be that she isn't ready now but will want a relationship at some point soon.

[SuperTgirlTaylor]

dont ever date a friend cuz when you break up its hard to talk to them and your relationship isn't like it was b4 you went out.

Recently i dated one of my good friends and during the time together we never really talked and now we are trying really hard to talk to each other but I just cant stand her.

want more info send me an email

i cant pm right now i haven't gotten to 100 posts

[RyTwy]

dont ever date a friend cuz when you break up its hard to talk to them and your relationship isn't like it was b4 you went out.

Recently i dated one of my good friends and during the time together we never really talked and now we are trying really hard to talk to each other but I just cant stand her.

want more info send me an email

i cant pm right now i haven't gotten to 100 posts

Hmm, In my opinion it depends how strong minded you both are, as I had been good friends with a girl for about 7 months, we then started dating, which didn't last long at all, yet, we carried on as best friends, and to be honest, we was closer than ever before. and we still are close and strong today.

If you are true friends, and you have a feeling the relationship, could potentially ruin the friendship at the end, I don't think it is worth it, but if you could both pull through it and continue to be there for each other if it doesn't work out, it may work out better.

Also, the fact that you was willing to stick by her may impress her and she may want to get back with you in the future.

Anyway, that's my opinion

~Twy xo

[Hope4u]

be careful with this..if you do start going out and something bad happens..you may have just lost a good friend not just a girlfriend...it's not always the best idea to date a friend.

[anonymous53]

dont ever date a friend cuz when you break up its hard to talk to them and your relationship isn't like it was b4 you went out.

Recently i dated one of my good friends and during the time together we never really talked and now we are trying really hard to talk to each other but I just cant stand her.

want more info send me an email

i cant pm right now i haven't gotten to 100 posts

The girl I am dating currently we hadbeen best friends for over a year before we began dating. We've been together for half a year now.

It's worth the risk.

[Dimitri]

Go for it mate!!

[patrick99]

Go for it man it's your best friend, you have a pretty good chance.

[kyle95]

Be honest with her. She presented you with a golden opportunity and you lied. Go back and tell her that it's been bothering you that you weren't forthright with her. She'll see that a relationship with you will be solid, no lies and no head games - the very reason why she prolly broke up with her bf. Good luck mate :)

[Marky]

dont ever date a friend cuz when you break up its hard to talk to them and your relationship isn't like it was b4 you went out.

Recently i dated one of my good friends and during the time together we never really talked and now we are trying really hard to talk to each other but I just cant stand her.

want more info send me an email

i cant pm right now i haven't gotten to 100 posts

I dated my best freind so dont say it ruins things. It was hard yes but eventually we got over it and exchanged thoughts and we speak fine now. I mean i still like her and such (i broke up with her) but we still talk and stuuf. it just takes time.




and dating a bnest freind can be good because its not a complete stranger and you two know each other which makes things work

[AllThatYouDreamed]

, cause she asked me the other day if I liked her "obviously I said no". Any advise?

why did you say no, if you are into her?

[BOSS]

why did you say no, if you are into her?

I'm very nervous around girls. :(

[TrackKid29]

Talk to her about how u feel onje day