Why are girls so confusing..?

[Dack]

So there's this girl...

I met her at the Begining of the year and I've liked her since. She knows I like her, and thanks to my friend who told her I wanted her number, she keeps looking at me expectantly...my problem here is I am definitally too shy to do it. I want to try for it when she's alone...she never is.

Then, when I casually talk to her, she usually just dismisses me Luke I do t matter. What am I doing wrong to make her act this way?

[ackmedsgirl666]

maybe its because u haven't said anything so she thinks that u are blowing her off
maybe write her up a text or something and tell her straight up how ya feel

[Dack]

But thTs the problem; she knows I like her, BUT I don't have her number. And when I casually try to start conversation its like she doesn't want me to talk.

[EarthToBryan]

Ahhh, the wiles of the female. We shall never be able to decipher their signals, I bet half of them are send for the sole purpose of confusing us.

[BrokenXPaperXDolls]

Ahhh, the wiles of the female. We shall never be able to decipher their signals, I bet half of them are send for the sole purpose of confusing us.

Its what we do:D

Anyway back to the topic, maybe she is also shy and because she knows u like her and is expecting you to say something she dosnt know how to act around you.

[moon_lit_angel]

maybe she's shy. she probably likes you to. i know generally girls like lads to make the first move

so just man up and ask her

[Dunce]

Well she obviously was expecting you to text or call her, so she thinks you blew her off. She's not going to start talking to you like nothing's wrong when your friend asked her for her number yet you never called her. She's confused about whether you like her or not.

If you think she's being confusing, imagine how confusing she thinks you are :/

[Dack]

The main problem is I don't HAVE her number. I'd have no problems if I did have it-like most people I have more courage via text.

The shy thing: yeah, my friend said that as well...I find it hard to believe because she is always with her friends pretty much 24/7, bt if that the case I'll have to wait until the right moment. :S

[anonymous53]

The right moment is now. Man up and ask her :)

[LifeisLife]

I would say that you should go on facebook chat or text with her and ask her if you 2 could meet up alone sometime and then if you do then tell her how you feel, take it from somebody who knows how it feels, it works (:

[Dack]

Thanks. I'm going to try. But I don't know if I would be able to.

[LifeisLife]

Go watch a movie with her or just hang out somewhere but without any of her or your friends around (so that there's no pressure) and then just slowly start talking about crushes and who people like and stuff like that and then obviously she's going to ask who you like and you the same for her (or that's how it usually goes) and then you tell her (: that's how it happened for me :P

[Dack]

I asked her today; I don't think she heard what I said though, so im gonna try again tommorow. Better result should follow.

Thanks for the advice guys :)

[KatieBaby]

Just go up to her and be sweet and not cocky. Getting her alone is good, easier that way. Just go up to her and ask to talk privately or something. Its ok if your are shy, so is she.

[Dack]

I asked her but she said no; I'm going to assume that she dent hear what I actually was asking for because in my defense it was noisy in the room.

[Dimitri]

In the words of my friend jamin. Man up, bam! * said I Emarld style*