Never had a GF

[keith88]

I am 15 and never had a girlfriend kissed a girl or other I am str8 not gay i am overweight I am 6,0 250lbs i know girls dont like fat kids so what can i do

I just really want a girlfriend

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[Iron Man]

i know girls don't like fat kids
The only girls that don't like fat kids are the wrong ones. About not having a girlfriend, I haven't had one either. You will find one eventually that has a great personality, likes you for you, and also has looks that you find attractive. Be patient, good sir.

[keith88]

The only girls that don't like fat kids are the wrong ones. About not having a girlfriend, I haven't had one either. You will find one eventually that has a great personality, likes you for you, and also has looks that you find attractive. Be patient, good sir.

i know i will find but it is getting old being single

[anonymous53]

If you think you're weight is holding you back then lose it. Enterprise is right, the right girls won't care about looks.

Seriously though, if you're upset about your appearance. Then change it :)

[Iron Man]

Do you really want to be with someone who is a dumb bimbo that doesn't care about you at all, and you would put up with it because you hate being alone, or would you rather wait for the right individual, with whom you would share your feelings and concerns with and be crazy in love with?

[EarthToBryan]

Im 15, 6'1 and 210 lbs. Never had a girlfriend, never been in a relation ship other than in 4th grade I held hands with my stalker. You aren't weird. Things will happen in due time. Personality is the thing that matters in a relationship, so if you can fake that; you're in!!!

[macbox84]

Honestly I'm a fatty and I'm not bragging but I have been to 2nd w a hotty. The message is that there is someone out there and u just have to find the right one

[smithy94]

im 16, 6 foot 2 and overweight and ive had sex with 1 girl, been to 3rd base with 3, its all about personality honestly, it is a cliche but its true. Stick at it lad, it will happen eventually :)

[keith88]

i know it will

[love_linds]

By the height and weight I don't think you are to overweight.. My brother is about the same.
Anyways!
Try putting yourself out there more. (or at all if you don't). ;)

[1_21Guns]

There's nothing wrong with never being with anyone as of yet, sure, it sucks sometimes, but there's nothing wrong with it and it's nothing to be ashamed of. I've never had a boyfriend, and that's okay. You can't rush into things like that, and it's certainly not all it's cracked up to be, so calm down, the last thing you want to seem is desperate. Unfortunately with things like this, time is the only thing in your way.

[Pancakes]

Keep trying man!

[Cap'nCrunch]

I am 15 and never had a girlfriend kissed a girl or other I am str8 not gay i am overweight I am 6,0 250lbs i know girls dont like fat kids so what can i do

I just really want a girlfriend

Please do not double post, there is an edit button for a reason.

I never had a real girlfriend until I was 17. She was my first kiss, too... I wanted the same thing you do, and eventually I got lucky and met a really great girl. Just don't sell yourself short and go out with a girl who doesn't care about you or treats you like shit.

[Jess]

you aren't the only one. I'm 16 and still single. my older brother is turning 18 this Saturday and he's still single (not that any of us actually care). you'll eventually find someone that you will love and love you back. don't let your weight get in the way

[Grayeyes]

No need to ruuush. There's much time in the world.
and, don't feel insecure about your weight. Just keep up your personality.

[kyle95]

First, like who you are and as you are. Girls aren't cruel by nature. You know there may be room for improvement, so start slowly and expect nothing. When a girl shows interest, it'll be for your personality, decency, respect, and honour - everything else is window dressing and icing on the cake :)

[Nihilus]

If you really want a girlfriend and you think weight has something to with you not being appealing to girls, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Start working out and lose some weight. You will feel better and happier, and then girls will notice you more. Looks don't have everything to do with getting a gf but it helps.

[patrick99]

Work out, you should take the advantage of the not stop fast metabolism, and work out. I was at 150lbs at 2010, now I weigh 141 as of yesterday, I almost have a six pack, and i'm one of the guys that have a large muscular build in the school.

[HaydenM]

mm i know the feeling of not having a gf, im 15 and havnt had a gf. im not fat, actually quite the opposite but if you want one just get out there and you'll find someone.

[AutumnDae]

My boyfriend is 15 (Wow, that sounds weird to say considering I'm 17....haha) and I'm his first real girlfriend. He was in a relationship last year, but it lasted for 3 days, and she managed to say exactly 7 words to him over the course of that 3 days. So he doesn't really consider it a relationship. :P

It's not that weird at all, I promise!

[Sith Lord 13]

I didn't get into my first relationship until I was 19. There's nothing wrong with taking your time.

[LuckyLuke]

I'm 17 and in my first serious relationship. I used to be pounds away from being labeled obese and I'm now only 9% body 2 years later.

Listen, although it's unfortunate, it's much more difficult to commence a relationship if you're of larger size. This isn't because all girls are shallow and this isn't because you're a bad person or have a bad personality.

It's more difficult because there's less "initiative" to talk to larger people in a flirtatious and romantic way because, in most cases, people don't find them physically attractive. And although, for me and many many people out there, looks mean MUCH less than personality, you can't read someones personality like you can their physical appearance.

If you're unhappy with your weight, don't wait- do something. Take initiative! Don't set idly by and allow yourself to be unhappy. I can honestly say that it's worth it.

Finally, there's someone out there for everyone and if a girl can't appreciate you for who YOU are, regardless of all else, than SHE doesn't deserve you.

[bravo-charlie]

I've never had one either, and I'm 16.You're not the only one who is around our age and still single.I sometimes feel left out of things, cause my friends are starting to get girlfriends, but I am not bothered really by it.If you want to get a girlfriend, maybe work out and do some excersize and put yourself out there.

[Gleeboy1995]

The brash answer I could give you is just date an equally overweight chick that has no right to be picky but really you will find someone I'm sure there is someone out there for everyone I believe

[Havok]

Your very normal, besides you ever see some of those bimbos or jocks? Switching bfs and gfs every other day? No thank you, i have friends who are 16, neither overwieght or ugly (the opposite if i am any judge) and they CHOOSE not to date, and i can't say i disagree with them. Dating as a teenager is not what it's all cracked up to be, besides i'm starting to think the majority of teenagers ARE single...

[love is louder]

you have nothing to worry about man.
it takes the average person 7.5 years of dating to find "the one"
i have been "dating" since i was thirteen but i count the relationship i am in now as my first proper one.
and as far as the fat thing goes its not a big deal, my ideal man is jonny vegas, peoples tastes are different.

If you think you're weight is holding you back then lose it. Enterprise is right, the right girls won't care about looks.

Seriously though, if you're upset about your appearance. Then change it :)

as Rob said is you think thats the problem change it.

good luck dude.

[Lawliet]

I'm 15 also, and weigh about 110, 5'8ish and I haven't had a girlfriend yet either. Don't worry and don't give up.