Really rather lonely

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

This is just guna be a quick rant, but recently I've felt really lonely in the love department.
My last boyfriend was over 2 years ago, and I've been fine since, especially during the summer cus it was just an excuse to be single and mess around.

But (without trying to sound too sad and desperate) I just really want to be close with somone. Really invest my heart into a guy, share stuff and have fun. I know I should be more independent, but Ihave been for a while and so ready for a relationship...

Does anyone else ever get lonely?

[word_up]

I know what you mean, I haven't been in a relationship in over 8 months or something like that. Sometimes you just feel like you want to be with someone who wants to be with you at the same time. but our time will come soon hopefully :)

[Trickster]

Yes sometimes it feels like being single is just...exhausting. You want that person you can hold onto and have fun with, talk and text until u fall asleep. Light up when they walk in the room and I bet anything all you see is couples when your around your friends. Honestly you really do need to be patient because if you try to rush a relationship it could get ugly and more heartbreak then its worth

[EarthToBryan]

I yearn for that disney moment, when I'm with the person I love and everything is just right in the world, unfortunately my awkwardness and non-committal/shy personality have other plans. I have never really gotten close to another person, and I regret not getting the relationship experience earlier on. Now I just get my hopes stomped on whenever I put my feelings on the line with someone.

[Natron01]

I feel the same way......my last gf was forever ago and she played me......i just want someone that actually cares about me as much as i care bout her...........

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

I yearn for that disney moment, when I'm with the person I love and everything is just right in the world, unfortunately my awkwardness and non-committal/shy personality have other plans. I have never really gotten close to another person, and I regret not getting the relationship experience earlier on. Now I just get my hopes stomped on whenever I put my feelings on the line with someone.

I know what you mean about the Disney moment! 100%!

[Nihilus]

Yes, at some moments (a lot when I'm alone), but right now I'm focused on school.

[Fairy]

I'm sure many of us feel the same way sometimes as stated above by some posters already.

But it's important to also be independant and not always rely on someone else to make you happy.

It often is hard but once you are completely happy yourself and with yourself(Love yourself for the person you are).
Then that person whom is meant to be with you, will cross your path.:)

Just remember to always keep hope alive. <3

[bambino]

I never have gotten that 'I want a boyfriend' thing.
I guess because I've only ever liked one guy [and yep I'm 18] so its more 'I want to be with him'. So until I meet someone who makes me feel that way again I'm okay being single.

[ASD17]

Haven't been in an official relationship, not too bothered. My friends group 'disbanded' like last summer so I have not nothing as in go out since then. So I just stay in, it's almost depressing.

[kyle95]

I have a gf and I feel lonely sometimes. Rather than defining these times as "lonely" try taking advantage of your personal time to know yourself better. There's nothing more attractive to a chap than a confident and carefree girl. There will come a time when you'll be in a relationship and feel as if you've "invested" too much and the returns suck. So enjoy your debt-free days while you can :)