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Mikeym
May 28th, 2011, 04:48 PM
Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex, I am worried its going to hurt or I'm gonna cum to soon. Any advice please. :)
Contra
May 28th, 2011, 04:59 PM
I assume that if you're worried about those things, it's going to be your first time.
About the first part, I trust it's going to hurt a bit... About the second part, you shouldn't worry about it, you're going to share an intimate moment with your boyfriend, what really matters is that you both feel good. I bet he won't mind if you come too soon, don't give it too much thought. Just enjoy the moment.
Zazu
May 29th, 2011, 01:54 AM
Wear a condom, take it VERY slowly, LOTS of lube, talk to each other lots to make sure you're both enjoying that you're doing.
Most people will find anal sex to be slightly uncomfortable the first few times they 'receive' and possibly 'give', just follow the above steps and remember to 'take a step back' if things do get too uncomfortable.
In terms of you worrying you're going to cum 'too soon', the less you worry about it, the less it's likely to happen. Loose yourself in it, go with the flow, relax and enjoy it, don't worry :p
MisterE
May 29th, 2011, 07:30 PM
Dont be worried,
Remember that this is your boyfriend you love enough to be doing this with, if you ejaculate to soon or anything like that noones going to mind.
Just keep it safe and if something hurts dont be afraid of telling him because all he wants is you happy, and vise versa :)
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