help with a mates problem

[Patchy]

my mate was at my house last night staying over and we went swimming at a public pool now after we had done some swimming we went to the showers, now the showers are all together.

now when i go for a shower i take my swimming shorts off he copied me and then when he was having a shower some guys started slagging him because everyone else had brown/black pubes and he had ginger pubes he messaged me today saying why is everyone else different why do i get slagged for it why does no one else in the showers have ginger pubes

i want to say something to him that means he is not embarrassed about it and will come swimming again

sorry its a long message but advice please

[DouggyO.o]

is he actualy a red head? because if he is his pubes will always be red.

[Patchy]

no he has brown hair on his head

[DouggyO.o]

hmmm thats strange, mabey they havnt develeoped all the way yet.

[Glasgow]

What colour are his eyebrows? (And i think ginger is blonde)

[Patchy]

well his eybrows are blonde but i need advice so i can get him to come swimming again coz he finds having ginger/blonde pubes is like the end of the world and he wont go swimming because of what happend

[Dante]

so they made fun of him because of the color of his pubic hair?? that is so childish

[Patchy]

yeh and now hes scared about going swimming because he dont like being slagged off about it

[Melchi0r]

It's totally normal. The guy who was raggin' on him for having ginger pubes is just a jerk.

[football]

why dont u jus tell the guys to f off if ya kno wut i mean...i mean if ur takin a shower with another guy why are they even looking in the general region of his penis? must mean that they are gay or sumtin so tell him 2 take it as a complement? hehe but jus tell him 2 take a shower with his suit on

[Patchy]

yeh thats great thanks guys

[Kamloops.man]

It might be the colour of his hair.. I mean that's absolutely retarded to make fun of someone with different colour pubes. I mean come on! What are they 2? Seriously it doesn't matter what colour pubes you have.. It's how we were made..

[Hyper]

It actualy hasn't got to do with your hair.. But pubic hair determines the colour of your body hair

[Mr. Deere]

I agree with everyone above, anyone who makes fun of someone for your pubic hair is just a jerk, ignore them.

So, everytime you go to the pool, the guys make fun of him everytime they see him, or everytime you go to the showers? Sorry just got me confussed. :P

[crisper99]

Tell him this:

It's not your fault you were born with red hair, and it doesn't matter that you have ginger pubes. Theres no difference between red pubes and brown and black ones, its just a different colour, just like the hair on your head. It doesn't matter what other people thinkl, it matters what you think. Don't listen to other people, they are just jealous or they have low self esteem, so they take it down on other people to make them feel better about themselves. Anyways, those same guys won't be at the pool next time you go, so it's alright

There you go, hope it helps =)

[Triceratops]

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