Having Trouble Classifying Myself

[HunterXZ]

I'm having a little trouble classifying myself between gay or bi. The thing is, with me, I would want to have sex with a guy and have a romantic relationship with him, pretty much the gay stuff. But on the side, I'm also the kind of person that would want to have a romantic relationship with a girl, but I don't want to have sex with a girl. It just leaves me confused. Does wanting to have a relationship with a girl make me bi? Or does not wanting to have sex with one make me gay? Thanks for any feedback

[Syvelocin]

No one can tell you what your sexuality is. They can speculate. But it is a personal label for yourself, to describe yourself accurately to others.

That is exactly my situation. Well, sort of. I'm capable of emotional attraction to a guy. I don't find 99% of guys attractive, and sex with a guy is just uninteresting. I've got the full attraction to girls though.

I finally came to the conclusion that I want to be known as homosexual however, as I'm more interested in a long-term relationship with a girl. It's more accurate, in my head, than bisexual.

It's all up to you, your opinion, and what you think will work best for you.

[Donkey]

Why do you need a label? No one word is going to fully describe your sexuality, no matter how close it comes.

[HunterXZ]

Why do you need a label? No one word is going to fully describe your sexuality, no matter how close it comes.

Well, if I ever decide to come out, what would I say? Would I say "Hey world, I'm gay!" or "Hey world, I'm bi!"? I don't want to have to say, I don't know what "label" I am or something.