View Full Version : (*Facedesk*) how to deal with a younger person liking you?
kookoo_dude32
May 26th, 2011, 10:43 PM
I just posted a status on Facebook...about how no one likes me and no one ever will (still kinda feel that way btw) and this girl who i was talking to posted one about how she liked an older guy >_<...i knew it was me....we really only talked for the first time last night...how do i deal with this...she told me she likes me...Im a 10th grader...and she s 7th grader...so im midway through high school...and shes still in middle school...What do i do? also sorry for the long read....
Ambrosia
May 26th, 2011, 11:37 PM
Well first off, stop posting you're every thought and fear on facebook. Not to be rude, but when people post things like that it's aboslutely SILLY and uncalled for.
Second of all, when you two are both older and out of high school (Or you're twenty one, and she's a senior) it won't really matter. Age stops mattering to a point after a few years but at the moment, it's immoral. You should make this clear to her, and tell her that you appreciate her liking you and all, but you think it would be best if you waited a few years until the two of you are much older and able to reconsider the whole thing.
Hairy14uk
May 28th, 2011, 06:05 AM
Lexi has a point about Facebook, posting literally everything you think is dodgy enough. I have no idea how old she is, UK not US, so I can't really make a decent point but I'd just say that wait until you're both older and gradually the age difference will seem less significant.
Grayeyes
May 28th, 2011, 06:32 AM
tbh, similar to what these guys said, posting very personal insights like that on facebook says quite a bit about your self-esteem and wanting some attention. And i think it's better if you talk to someone personally about this matter instead of making the world see it on a social network... (No offense intended...)
As for the girl who likes you, maybe you should talk to her about you not being comfortable with the age gap. She should be able to understand how you feel about this.
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