I just need...

[Green Arrow]

I am bi (99.9999r gay) I am no where near ready to come out I just need some one to talk to but I feel like I cant talk to any one :( HELP

[Kaius]

Well to talk to someone you don't necessarily have to come out 100%. Is there anyone you'd feel comfortable talking to about it, maybe a close friend?

[Green Arrow]

I sorta but I don't really know how to bring it up in a convocation :S

[Contra]

If you feel comfortable enough with that person you don't have to "bring it up", just start a conversation about it. Like "I have to tell you something about me" or something like that. But don't feel forced to do it, you should only come out if you're comfortable enough to do it. :)

[Starlight Blaze]

yeah don't come out if you aren't comfortable with it yet...though I know what it's like to hold it inside...maybe you could just come out to one of your closest friends? if you would be comfortable with that

[gleeguy]

If you just need someone to talk to the VT community can help with that, we are 100% supportive!

[TAC1]

We can all help you out. There are also hotlines you can call to speak to someone. And seeing that you are from England- here is the website for the London Lesbian and Gay Helpline.

http://www.llgs.org.uk/

Hope that helps you!

[Dunce]

Well, VT are here. And VT is what looooads of people use to get things like this off their chest :) You could tell a close friend, a best friend that you trust. Or you could tell a close friend that's outside your normal group of friends, just to feel a bit safer :)

You don't need to come out until you actually feel like you want to, so you can take it slow :)

[Hairy14uk]

I wouldn't rely solely on Vt, if you can try and tell maybe one person at first that you trust not to tell anyone. Just getting that one person on your side will make you feel so much better... gradually you should feel more and more comfortable to the point that you tell another person and then another etc.