How do I tell them...

[Rawrmuncher]

I have decided, I'm bisexual, but I have no idea how I will tell my friends. Most of my friends are straight, only a few are bi. I was the first to know about my friend being bi, and I wanna tell her first. I just don't know how to say it, and maybe she'll think I'm copying her, but I'm not. Bllaahhh.

Also, one of my friends said that bi people are so cool, and then she found out about her. I don't know what to do or say. Can someone help? xD

[gleeguy]

Well this is how I did it and it worked, slowly for one year I told some people going from close friends to just friends to shouting it out during p.e, and now I'm respected at school as bi, and my gf did the same thing too

[Rawrmuncher]

I'm going to tell close friends.. Maybe only 2 people until I think I'm ready.

[gleeguy]

I'm going to tell close friends.. Maybe only 2 people until I think I'm ready.

Yeah, that's cool what ever floats your boat works

[TAC1]

You've got the right concept. Tell your really close friends until you are ready to come out to others. It takes alot of courage to do this though. You've got to be brave and have courage and plenty of self confidence in yourself. But I know that you can do it!

[achris15mbi]

I did it in 8th grade. I told my two bestfriends. They reacted like "omg no way" at first but after a week they just said w.e you're still the same person. I would tell your close friends they're the ones that matter then you can decide if u wanan tell other people cause who cares what other ppl think

[Dunce]

I know this is way harder than it sounds :) Last night I was at a sleepover with two of my closest friends and I tried to tell them I liked a girl, but it just wouldn't come out. They know that I'm questioning, and they actually are too :) But I still couldnt get it out there.

I'd say to just come out to a small few friends, maybe if you're at someone's house or something. Or even on facebook. My plan was to ask them first if they ever fancied someone of the same sex, and then tell them. You could do that, or an easier thing to do would be to tell one of your bi friends :)