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BrokenXPaperXDolls

May 26th, 2011, 01:13 PM

Me and my ex have been talking recently on msn and it seems that whatever i do he seems to get mad and upset all the time. he knows about my ED and depression and is always using it against me by asking if im being "fake". Yes he broke my heart but i hate when people are sad and i dont know what is going on with him. He can get so moody and i never know what to do to make him feel better. yes it wasnt long ago that we broke up and i dont know if thats why but he can become so mean and standofish. He was my first boyfriend but i was always the one giving hugs and it never went beyond that and i was always woundering if it was something about me wich triggerd me into relapsing with my ED. But i hate it still when he is sad even though i dont know why and it seems stupid considering. does anyone have any ideas about what could be going on with him:(

Thanks:D

Tristin.

May 26th, 2011, 01:18 PM

duh, he still likes you. if he is either A)being an asshole or B) getting moody, he likes you still.

its up to you to work from there

anonymous53

May 26th, 2011, 01:36 PM

He probably still likes you. Ask him about it. The only way you can know is if you talk to him about it

BrokenXPaperXDolls

May 26th, 2011, 01:42 PM

OK i wasnt expecting that, so hes mean and moody to me after he breaks my heart because he still likes me. why would he like me he still when he could do better and also im kinda messed up. but ill ask and talk to him though if it will make him feel and less sad and moody:D i hope it works

Tristin.

May 26th, 2011, 01:44 PM

dont ask him outright!!

hes a guy, the majority of straight guys have the emotional capacity of a clam dear. be subtle.

he cant handle what he did, so hes being mean to make himself not like you, but because he does he is getting angry with himself

BrokenXPaperXDolls

May 26th, 2011, 01:51 PM