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Fishes
May 25th, 2011, 04:40 PM
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theatregeek
May 25th, 2011, 06:02 PM
Completely normal to be curious. Don't worry about it cuz pretty much every guy goes through that phase (some never get out of it haha) but yea it's normal to want it. I would only experiment with a trusted friend if I were you, you don't always know how people will respond.

ajpofp
May 25th, 2011, 06:59 PM
Don't worry about it cuz pretty much every guy goes through that phase (some never get out of it haha)

woah. hahahhaa.:lol:

He's right. Completely Normal :yeah:

connormac
May 25th, 2011, 07:12 PM
Very normal; ive done it and its great. Just make sure its a trusted friend who wont tell anyone & ruin ur reputation. suggest it like a joke and then see what he thinks.

Jon Doe 401
May 25th, 2011, 08:58 PM
Completely normal to be curious. Don't worry about it cuz pretty much every guy goes through that phase (some never get out of it haha) but yea it's normal to want it. I would only experiment with a trusted friend if I were you, you don't always know how people will respond.

ya i totally agree with him make sure its a friend you feel comfortable with talking about sexual stuff or wouldn't be embarrassed to show your penis in front of them... :yes:

steveweiss
May 25th, 2011, 09:04 PM
stand back a bit at the urinals and see who gazes or change in the open and see who breaks the "shoulders rule" ...has worked for me in the past ;)

RadioPlayer
May 25th, 2011, 09:26 PM
Yea, it's very normal. I think almost every guy is somewhat curious. The way that I kinda started was just by talking about jacking off. I talked about it a lot with one of my friends and soon enough, we were jacking off and experimenting. It might be weird, but once you get it going its totally normal.

saxplayer9291
May 25th, 2011, 10:16 PM
Its very normal. Your probably bi. It is an awesome thing the first time you kiss

Chillswil
May 25th, 2011, 11:21 PM
Its normal as far as I've heard on VT

MustangRacer35
May 26th, 2011, 12:25 AM
Just make sure its a trusted friend who wont tell anyone & ruin ur reputation. suggest it like a joke and then see what he thinks.

I think that is a good approach. You want to make sure you can trust them but at the same time you want to bring it up in a way that you can get out of it if they think it's weird or whatever. I have no experience with this but I think that would be a good way to do it.

boom17
May 26th, 2011, 12:27 AM
it just kinda happens, happened for me multiple times all during sleepovers and stuff, stay up late, sleep w/ nothing on but boxers, suggest watch porn etc etc

TheRev
May 26th, 2011, 12:38 AM
invte you best bro over for the night and play turth or dear LOL thats how me and 5 other friends got into it

amigo93
May 26th, 2011, 06:34 AM
Remember though it could ruin a friendship, so be extra careful when doing that.

Fishes
June 3rd, 2011, 10:39 AM
thanks for the help hopefully i can figure this out now

THEtechGEEK
June 5th, 2011, 08:06 PM
as i say in all my posts:
want <<< Strong word!

beardedboy
June 5th, 2011, 08:32 PM
I really want to try experimenting, but the ones who I want to do it with aren't close friends. Just the kids I see in the hallway at school. So it isn't like I just invite them over my house. All my close friends I am not attracted to. Hmmmm... what to do.

Silentkink
June 5th, 2011, 08:34 PM
Yeah it is perfectly normal to be curious, but before you do anything sexual, I would deeply consider if you really want to do that, and make sure you can trust the person you would be doing it with.

kdddd
June 5th, 2011, 08:52 PM
it is very normal dude dont worry. most guys do have that same curiosity at some point

THEtechGEEK
June 5th, 2011, 08:53 PM
Yeah it is perfectly normal to be curious, but before you do anything sexual, I would deeply consider if you really want to do that, and make sure you can trust the person you would be doing it with.

Agreed, silentkink, agreed

Lil Ill
June 6th, 2011, 09:20 AM
I never experimented but I will say the mindful of who you say it to and who you say it around you don't want to become an outcast

josh93
June 6th, 2011, 09:30 AM
yes it is normal. Mostly all guys want to expieriment with another guy.

Joee
June 6th, 2011, 10:12 AM
I'm also curious but i've never had enought courage to ask a friend..

Parlement
June 6th, 2011, 12:15 PM
Experimenting with another person of the same gender is more easy said than done, though.

THEtechGEEK
June 6th, 2011, 05:26 PM
Yeah.... What parlement said....

bornthisway
June 12th, 2011, 02:51 PM
I'm the same way. I wanna expierment with a couple guys. But idk anyone who wants the same. And it'd be awkward talking to them about it.

Michigan48111
June 12th, 2011, 02:54 PM
yes it's normal to want to experiment and I am sure that some others in your school and your friends are thinking the same thing. I would say to just wait until you are in a spot where you know one of your friends wants to fool around. It could be bad if you just ask someone and they tell everyone you wanted to fool with them.

boydude
June 13th, 2011, 07:35 PM
Experimenting is kinda what being a teen dude is about, having fun, exploring our bodies? Right? Finding out what we want in life. I have experimented before.

zander21
June 21st, 2011, 08:44 PM
I've wanted to experiment for a while now but can't find n e one either:/

Clouds
June 21st, 2011, 09:11 PM
Its completly normal

Jordanthomas69
June 29th, 2011, 06:40 PM
I used to be the same. I even invited my best friend to stop round and I really wanted to do it but didn't know how to ask so never did. I'm sort of glad in a way because I can imagine that it could ruin a good friendship with awkwardness or whatever but I also regeret not doing it because I really wanted to and he was pretty fly tbf

Thanatos
June 29th, 2011, 06:42 PM
Mhm I have experimented and there are still guys I know that I'd want to do it with.

vginy124
August 14th, 2011, 04:29 PM
Experimenting with my Best Friend has made some of my best memories!! Just make sure they are comfortable with it. Like they said, joke about it, gauge his response, bring up masturbation and porn etc etc

Unsolvedmind
August 14th, 2011, 05:15 PM
Yup perfectly normal

Rayquaza
August 14th, 2011, 05:19 PM
Very normal. You're a teen. Hormones are everywhere

IanNE
September 18th, 2011, 02:32 PM
Its normal for you to want to do that.

KarkatLuv
September 24th, 2011, 12:16 AM
Find a good friend and get him in bed, and yes it's normal

Teencuriosity
September 24th, 2011, 12:29 AM
its normal and its hard to know if you really want to you;ll just have to ask

BaNd
September 25th, 2011, 08:00 AM
ok so ive wanted to experiment for some time now but how do i kno if theres a guy that will want to at school?
is it normal to want this?

exactly like i am sure there are no guys at school who would

acurasrock
September 25th, 2011, 09:42 AM
Totally normal to experiment. I've jack'd with bout 4 diff friends from school now, it's a once in awhile thing. Make sure you trust them first though!

Trinity_15
September 25th, 2011, 10:12 AM
if you have really close guy friends invite one over. if you start talking about sex put on some porn it basically leads itself.

Jonathan16
September 29th, 2011, 07:58 PM
same here .... but never done it