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Sterling26
May 25th, 2011, 04:34 PM
i've been feeling somewhat confused about my sexuality lately, so i decided that i'm going to try to give as much information as possible and see what the wonderful VT community thinks. the answers i receive here aren't going to define me, but at the same time i value your opinions as you all know much more about this kind of stuff than my friends do, so here goes:

-I have had two girlfriends, no boyfriends
-I have had crushes on both boys and girls
-95% of the stuff i masturbate to involves guys (or guys and girls)
-I check out guys all the time, but i only check out girls if it's blatant
-I was emotionally attracted to my first girlfriend, but not physically attracted
-I was both emotionally and physically attracted to my second girlfriend, and kinda sexually, we never got that far, but i really enjoyed kissing her
-I fantasize about having sex with men, especially bj
-I had a friend that isn't the best looking guy, but had a great personality, and over time i began to become physically/sexually attracted to him
-I find about 5% of guys in my school physically attractive, but only one emotionally attractive, and i hate the personalities of most of the guys in my school
-I find about 40% of girls in my school physically attractive, and most girls i'm close friends with emotionally attractive
-i had a male friend that i was REALLY sexually attracted to, but after he treated me like shit i ignored him and definitely felt the attraction drop
-i dont really seriously envision ever going on a date with a guy, though maybe idk, it just feels like it would be foreign territory

okay i think that's a long enough list lol, any opinion will be greatly appreciated, thanks!!!

Sterling26
May 27th, 2011, 10:05 PM
thanks for all the help guys :|

TAC1
May 27th, 2011, 10:32 PM
Wow..thats a list there buddy.. To help ya out, I shall first off say-don't rush it. We always want to know things now, and don't give things a chance to show itself.
But onto the question. Time will tell, you seem to have figured out what you do and don't like. I'm not going to throw labels out at you, but sometimes not thinking about it is the best thing to do. Don't think about what I am or what I like- instead think about who can I see myself with a couple years down the road.

Hope that helped!

Starlight Blaze
May 27th, 2011, 10:34 PM
well I'm not completely sure here, but it sounds like you are probably straight-curious or bi-curious one of the two

but listen to what's above me, that's great advice ;) good luck

Fruit_Tart.
May 28th, 2011, 12:12 AM
You're most likely to be bisexual because your attracted physically to both sexes. If you're emotionally attracted to guys you might just be straight and curious.
There's nothing wrong with waiting and finding out later, but you kinda have to be patient. :P
And sorry you had to wait on your responses... :l But I hope you figure this all out. :)