When did you have sex?

[TheFestivusPole]

I'm not quite sure where to post this so just sticky it if it's in the wrong place.

I'm 13 and theres this girl who I have made out with and fooled around with some, but I'm almost positive she wants to go all the way. The farthest I have gone is just touching her vagina. I don't know whether I want to have sex with her or not, im really attracted to her, and i also really like her as a person. So my question is for guys who arent virgins and who had sex relativley young. Did you regret doing it the first time or was it ok, and if you could do it over would you do it again?

[Activate]

You don't ask or post sex questions on this forum.

But since you want it answered, before it gets locked, you shouldnt do intercourse when your under 16. Oral is fine under my opinion :P

[TheFestivusPole]

Ah sorry I didn't know i wasnt supposed to post questions like that here

[MoveAlong]

I think it's a valid question :| I couldn't answer it anyway though, I'm still a virgin!

[Activate]

I think it's a valid question :| I couldn't answer it anyway though, I'm still a virgin!

I thought sex didnt have anything to do with puberty :P
Could be good in relationships?

[TheFestivusPole]

I looked for a relationships section but didnt find it:confused:

[Melchi0r]

I looked for a relationships section but didnt find it:confused:

Lol, look again.
Sex can wait, masturbate! And you find a lot of masturbation questions in the puberty forum, don't ya?

[MoveAlong]

Relationships and Dating, right here --> http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=52

But don't repost it there, it'll just be a duplicate thread. A mod could move it there for you, if you just ask here.

[Activate]

Just do some mutual masturbation or something..

[TheFestivusPole]

Lol how did I miss that? and could a mod or whoever plz move this thread, it would be greatly appreciated

[Activate]

I don't think I saw any mods online. Just wait, they'll see it.

[Glasgow]

In my opinion, having sex at 13 is wayyyyy too young. As much as most 13 year olds want to do it, they most likely arent ready. I mean, what if the condom broke/you didnt pull out in time. Just continue fooling around with her, oral is a good thing (Although i wouldn't even know :P)

[The Resurrected One]

I'm a virgin! :(

[iluvlamp1414]

i had sex for the first time just a couple months after i turned 16. i really dont reccommend a 13 year old having sex. thats just wrong.

[JoshDude]

I also believe waiting untill your 17+ for having sex would be the optimal choice. I mean, your penis should be fully gown by then anyway. More fun for the girl = more fun for you.

[Dante]

Sex Questions are allowed, as long as you do not post explicit material, or graphic detail

[TheFestivusPole]

Thanks for all the answers everybody, and clearly you guys think I shouldnt do it, but nobody really answered my question, did you regret it after your first time?

[Zazu]

Well, personally I would say 'NO' quite firmly in response to this question. Having sex isn't just about fucking someone and then forgetting about it. Emoticions (sp?) are involved, it means something and really shouldn't be anything you just do because you want to know what it's like. Seriously, thirteen is wayyyy too young.

Just wait un-till it is legal for you to have sex, like has been said, just experiment in some other things with her, blow jobs or general hand jobs from her should suffice.

And as to regards of your original point, yes I did fucking regret it lol. Thirteen is too young mate.

[chuckroast]

hey guys, i think part of finding your way through puberty is experimenting with sex and your body, so deffinately should be exception to rule--

i had sex when i was 13. I dont regret it at all. It was like a month into my first semi-serious relationship, making out turned into more and vois la'.

some of my friend though has sex early and regreted it. it depends on your comfort level with the girl (or guy) because you dont want to have sex then have your relationship turn purely physical ( which can happen easily) or just get flushed down the toilet because you to find it to awkward to talk afterwards.

also... it is important to remember that your first time will not be the hollywood portrayal of sex, its very different most of the time.

[jimmy.]

I had sex when i was 13 too

[Bobby]

I'm a virgin. I think you should wait. Teen pregnancy isn't good. Even a condom doesn't guarentee you won't get pregnant. Just think what you'll do to that girls life. Okay, I won't lecture you on teen pregnancy.

[TheFestivusPole]

Thanks for the answers everyone

I'm defenitley going to activley pursue having sex with this girl but if it just kind of happens I probably won't fight it either. So I'll see what happens.

[Zazu]

Thanks for the answers everyone

I'm defenitley going to activley pursue having sex with this girl but if it just kind of happens I probably won't fight it either. So I'll see what happens.

OK, well, this is going to sound rude, but no rudeness meant, but if you are stupid enough to do it when you are thirteen then at least wear a condom. Even if you really love the girl I still stick to my point of the fact that in my eyes it's fucking too young.

Keep safe.

[RowanVer.3.0]

If you think you're ready, do it. If you don't, don't.

It's simple. Age doesn't matter, so long as it's not a huge gap and you are being taken advantage of. Your age isn't your maturity level.

[TheFestivusPole]

I wouldnt not wear a condom Mask, im not a fucking idiot

[iluvlamp1414]

if you have sex at age 13 you are...

[Zazu]

EDIT: Meh, sorry, mis-read what you had typed. Dunno if you saw what I had put but if you had ignore it FestivusPole.

[MoveAlong]

Sex Questions are allowed, as long as you do not post explicit material, or graphic detail

Thanks for clearing that up! =]

Your age isn't your maturity level.

THANK YOU FOR SAYING THAT! That's like one of the the truest things of all in my eyes.

[Kathryn Ann]

I had sex for the first time when I was 13
and yes, i regret it a lot.
It's too young.

[TheFestivusPole]

I'm defenitley going to activley pursue having sex with this girl but if it just kind of happens I probably won't fight it either. So I'll see what happens.

lol what i meant to say is that im Not going to activley pursue having sex with this girl. i hate typos

*slaps self*

[AC.wAkeBoArDin.06]

I don't regret my first time, but I would have liked it better if it was with someone I really liked. But I was caught in the heat of the moment. I was 17 and we were on my bed when the house was alone and she just simply says... "Do you have a condom?" I always have a few in my room so im like yeah.. and then it just took off from there... I would say try not to get caught in the heat of the moment. I mean i still talk to the girl now and she trys to get me to come over her place now and then to keep going at it. But although it was amazing and fun at the time, lookin back... I wish my first was with someone I truly cared for or even loved.