Am I a "man"slut?

[conord12345]

im a 14 year old guy, and have made out with 23 girls, and have had sex with two of them.

People have given me the reputation as a "player" etc, and i dont like it. ive tried to prove them wrong, but have no idea what else to do. I treat all girls with respect, and dont usually mean to hurt their feelings. Now, its just getting a bit out of hand, and people spread rumors.

[restricted NA]

perhaps try to find a girl u really like and stick with her, so that u don't look like a player. It will show people that u are not just in a relationship for physical activities, that u can be loyal. good luck :):)

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

Admittedly that sounds like a lot for a 14 year old, but getting off with girls dosnt make you a man slut in my opinion. Hell if added up the guys i could remember getting with then, well... its a lot anyways! I think its sleeping around thats the issue, and if you don't want people to see you that way then you may have to alter your behaviour, perhaps a girlfriend to balance everything out?

good luck dude!

[Tristin.]

well..... it depends in what time frame? if it was say 2 months then, id class you as a liitle bit of a man whore. if its over a year then, probably not.

The sex on the other hand... not good. dont sleep about, once that sticks, its stuck. try nd just calm down, dont kiss everything that moves and has boobs. maybe try and find 1 girl you like and just treat her well.

[high-school108]

get a girlfriend and take it slow with her

[Dimitri]

I would mostly say you are slightly promiscous, or a little hornybugger!!

[Hairy14uk]

I wouldn't call you a man whore but you must see how people can see you being a bit excessive with the girls. All I can recommend is just trying to find a girl that you like and stick with her, you might even end up in a serious relationship; never mind expelling the current rumours.

[DerBear]

well to be honest yes and no to the man whore thing it can go either way just saying because u have slept around and made out with a lot of girls so i would say yes and no to that man whore thing

also what time frame was it?

[macbox84]

Not to b mean but honestly u a man ho and u should embrace ur man honess and work it

[Dunce]

Wow that's quite alot actually.... If you want to prove to your friends that you're not a slut then don't make out with loads of girls, simple as. If you want to make out with a load of girls then you have to get used to things that'll be said about you. If you feel like you treat girls with respect then don't worry too much about it.

[Weeping]

How long time is this about?

Like.. a few months or a year? etc.

[Grayeyes]

I think you should try getting into a serious relationship.
Maybe you shouldn't make out or even kiss the girl until you're sure you want to have a relationship with her and actually stay with that girl.

[UnsureAlex]

Youve definitly been around the block a few times