hanging out

[Starlight Blaze]

so I want to hang out with some guy friends like outside of school, but I'm out gay, and I'm not sure they would want to because of that...

any of you guys have advice on how to approach the situation?

[Drew7]

id jus say wanna hang out or feel like playin' some xbox or basketball or whatev you like to do

[kittylou]

Just like Drew said, I would just invive them to hang out. Don't make too big a deal about it and usually everyone else won't either.

[Contra]

You should talk to a few guys, and see which ones don't mind your sexuality. There are always going to be the biased ones, but there are also the ones that are OK with it.

Good luck :)

[Lights]

I don't think they will care about your sexuality if you ask to go out with them casually. If they look a bit 'iffy' when you ask, just say something along the lines of "well it's not as if I like any of you in that way, is it?". If you're rejected from that point, then they're not worth hanging out with in the first place - you can do better. I suspect they'll be fine with you hanging out with them though, as long as you're not really flamboyant and in their faces about your sexuality, which often alienates boys.

[Hairy14uk]

PS3/Xbox whatever they're on would be a good way to get talking to them, if you can try and get playing with them on there and if they talk about going out just ask if you can go, the first time will be the worst but after that they'll just automatically ask you or you'll be invited.

If you don't have PS3/Xbox then just try talking to them in school or on the way to/from school and see what they're like. You might just get a feeling that they won't care.

[Starlight Blaze]

okay thanks guys :) I'm def gonna take your tips and try it :) thanks again