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ASD17
May 24th, 2011, 01:07 PM
Right, here's the problem, I go to a boys school, and there is also a girls school, the schools are pretty close to eachother. Anyway, I have been talking to a girl, she's got some pretty positive vibes, she's pretty, she introduced me to her friends on facebook which was ok, now comes the silly part, we've talked for ages, aswell as to her friends, but I ask her to meet up and just chill out for the day, but she always avoids the question. I asked her friend about this situation, she said she mostly avoids all questions, even mine. I don't fancy her or anything, wouldn't mind being good friends, aswell as with her friends. I now find it really awkward, for virtually talking to her and her friends virtually, I like to get out, but I had a massive bust up with my 'friends' and I basically haven't had a good day out since last summer. Anyway I know she doesn't like me because we always talk, If I were to ignore whilst we were talking she'd keep messaging her. Anyway she avoids questions mainly, and her and her friends are pretty cool, we've talked too long virtually, what should I do.

DerBear
May 24th, 2011, 02:05 PM
well you say you have not met here in real life before so of course you should just leave it as if she gets the police you could be in trouble

you do not know her and she doesent know you are you supprised i mean come on think!

Contra
May 24th, 2011, 03:29 PM
You could bring up the subject of meeting up to one of her friends, perhaps they are more open to those kind of things than her. Then that way, you could all hang out and become good friends.

ASD17
May 25th, 2011, 03:35 PM
No I have met her at some party, but I didn't know her then, I obviously paid no attention, I know she exists. Just she seems to be reluctant to meet up..

Contra
May 25th, 2011, 05:50 PM
I don't really know how, but talk to her and show her there are no reasons for her to be suspicious about you or reluctant about meeting you, say you think she's really nice and you would like to know her better.