Dad

[Jarrett03]

I went into the bathroom the other day and accidently saw my dad getting out of the shower. He was a lot bigger than me. Im 14 but i barely have started puberty. Its embarrasing that im only two inches and hes a lot bigger. He told me before if i had questions to just ask but i dont know if i want to talk to him about that stuff.

[MustangRacer35]

If you've barely started puberty you still have time to grow. He's older than you so naturally he's fully developed while you aren't. It just takes time, so eventually you will get bigger.

[Jarrett03]

Should I talk to him about it?

[MustangRacer35]

You said he told you that if you have questions to ask him so if there is something you really want to ask him then go for it. You should do whatever is comfortable for you.

[dahardy9]

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[Tristin.]

your 14, your dads what? 45? (using my dads age :P) he will be larger as he is fully developed. talk to him if you want, i dont think it could hurt :)

if its any consolation, you will ptobably be roughly the same size as your dad

[Bubbaluch]

Just talk with him

[digzchickz]

Well you don't have anything to be embarrassed about you just started puberty, and you can't be comparing yourself up against a full grown man... but yeah I know what you mean. My dad always said that I could ask him anything and stuff but I just never really felt comfortable discussing that stuff with him lol

[Joshuagoesrawr2]

Give it time. People start at different ages.

If your dad says you can tlk to him about anythin then just go ahead adn tlk to him

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[Spock]

2 inches hard or soft?

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

I think all dad's say that stuff..I never talked to mine about it..seen him a few times and he is bigger than me... I'm 17 and kinda small ... so I really don't see me talking to him..

[marquis]

Should I talk to him about it?

yea and if your scared joke about it he will under;)stand

[Michigan48111]

I would say yeah talk to him even if its only just a little introduction to some stuff. Just tell him that you want him to answer honestly and answer your questions you have because you would rather he answer them then you have to go somewhere else.

[abcd1234]

its a dad thing to offer answers to his son
and if you have questions, he might be an okay guy to ask
once you do, you and you dad will be so much more open

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

I think you should do what is comfortable to you. If you are comfortable talking to your dad, then do so. If not, well that is why VT is here, to help answer our questions...sometimes it's best to get them answered here, by our peers.

[TrackKid29]

Of cource hes gonna be bigger, hes your dad bro lol if u needa talk to him feel free to dont be afraid to

[gonee]

was your dad flaccid? and are you 2 inches flaccid or erect. If you were flaccid 2 inches is completley fine at your age and you will probably grow more you got till your 21. Of course you should ask your Dad I'm sure he probably wanted someone to talk to when he was your age right?:) hope i helped

[Azunite]

Excuse me?
You are 14
He is an adult.
Do I need to say morE?

[spoke]

i talk to my dad about this stuff and i think it helps. when i have a problem i know he'll really listen to me and give me good advice. this may be a way for you and your dad to be able to talk about anything that concerns you in the future. i don't feel embarrassed or afraid to ask him anything now.

and yep, my dad is bigger than me. and after our talks i know i'm still growing and maybe will big as him when i'm fully grown

[Lil Ill]

talk to him, its always good to have a person to goto, and he's been there done that

[SWMG]

Well you are just 14 and he is an adult so you have time and do it if you have the questions go ahead

[mikeymike]

There is no harm in talking to him about it, he made the offer so go for it

[hmc863]

as ever oneelase has said talk to him