Chopin
May 23rd, 2011, 08:21 PM
Please give me some good advice.. I am so depressed thinking about this.. I can't really enjoy life. So anyway, I'm a senior in high school. Like 8 months ago I became friends with a girl.. her boyfreind was my bestfried. However, he ended up using her and dumping her, breaking her heart. He also ditched all of his friends (including me) for new ones.. me and her ended up having class together; and since then, I have been giving her advice on a lot of things and helping her through this breakup. I guess you can say we've became bestfriends in a way. We talk a lot, by text, phone, etc. She tales me almost everything, even things she doesn't tale her female bestfriends. The thing is, I have a HUGE crush on her, I even think I'm in love.. but the thing is, I feel like I'm just good for advice, and keeping her on the right track.. I feel like I'm trapped in the "best-friend" zone.. idk. It kills me because ever since her brake-up, shes became extremely flirty, and flirts with a lot of guys.. and one of them is my other guy bestfriend. It's really hard. I just wish she knew how I felt about her, and that I would love her for her and not for sex. She's extremely beautiful, so a lot of dudes flirt with her in hope to "get some." And I feel like I'm not that good looking enough for her, I also feel like I wouldn't meet her standards.. So what should I do? Should I tell her how I feel? what if she doesn't feel the same and our friendship is destroyed? I want to tell her soooo bad, in hopes that she feels the same way.. I just don't have enough confidence; I can't pull myself to say it.. I just don't know what to do. please give me some good advice.