I feel so confused....!!!!

[DarkNick]

I've been questing my sexuality for so long,and I still do!!!
When I was young I was getting aroused by watching porn in general,but I was never really aroused by watching a girl (naked or not).Since I had cancer when I was young I didn't really have the time to focus on stuff like these at all...Anyway I've feel in love with three girls and I when I speak with girls I feel that awkward-chemistry thing that make you feel uncomfortable (to girls that I thing that I like of course)but I don't get really aroused (sexually I mean).I feel like I don't know them at all.I get aroused when I watch gay and bi porn and I do get aroused when I watch to normal porn too but not that much!I also want to say that I feel that I've fell in love with one guy in the past....
Based on these facts what's your opinion about my sexuality... ?
Thanks a lot for reading this! :)
Regards,
Nick

[Contra]

Well, for now it's a bit soon to determine it. But if I had to take a guess, I'd say you're bi, with more attraction to the opposite sex than to the same one. I say that based on the fact that you fell in love with a guy, because if that hadn't happened, you'd just be straight curious, to my awareness.
Rule out that falling in love with the 3 girls and 1 guy thing and I'm pretty much like you! I know it's hard not really knowing your sexuality and rolling around in that circle of mixed feelings, but don't worry too much about it for now, just enjoy your teen years, it will be easier to label yourself when you're older. That's what I'm doing.

[Fishes]

ya im the same way id say youre bi sexual. but its totally fine to be like that. More options :)

[DarkNick]

Thanks a lot for your answers,both of you!
In the meanwhile I would love to hear any other opinions! :)

[Starlight Blaze]

yeah it sounds bi, but i had feelings for girls before and ended up gay, so you ould be either...
but seriously either bi or maybe straight are the choices i would go with, more likely bi

[Drew7]

i think it's too soon to tell. we're horny all the time. we get randomly aroused etc. maybe you're not 100% st8 and that's fine with us. maybe thats the answer rather than say str8, bi, gay, maybe it's we're all bi, but some of us are 100 into opp sex or 100 percent in same, or somewhere in the middle AND it prolly changed day to day week to week. I have no clue about it changing, but were in puberty and everything is changing on us anyway.

[DarkNick]

Thanks for your responses guys... :)
Any other responses would be appreciated :)

[DarkNick]

Another thing that concers me is that I don't find a womans body so attractive! (Like wow! what a hot ass-errection!).It's like it's just a body and nothing more...

(Sorry for double-posting! :S)

[Contra]

Another thing that concers me is that I don't find a womans body so attractive! (Like wow! what a hot ass-errection!).It's like it's just a body and nothing more...

(Sorry for double-posting! :S)

Yeah, I know what you're saying, I also don't look at a woman's body and find her like... boner hot. I actually prefer a woman's face than her body, although I like athletic women too.
It's like what I said before, it's the mixed feelings you get in your teen years that get you like that.

[DarkNick]

Yeah, I know what you're saying, I also don't look at a woman's body and find her like... boner hot. I actually prefer a woman's face than her body, although I like athletic women too.
It's like what I said before, it's the mixed feelings you get in your teen years that get you like that.

based on that fact how should I ''label'' myself?
I never had a realitionship and I want to find a girl to to give it a try but I'm afraid 'cause of these feelings :S

[Contra]

based on that fact how should I ''label'' myself?
I never had a realitionship and I want to find a girl to to give it a try but I'm afraid 'cause of these feelings :S

I may sound like a broken record, but you shouldn't label yourself too soon. But if you're in a desperate need for it, then I'd say you're bi tending more to the girls side or perhaps straight curious. I know this doesn't sound like a very reliable answer, but you have to understand it's a bit hard to label someone's sexuality through the Internet and in this young age, do you get it?

Oh, and I'm like you in that way too, I want to find a girl to see if I can have a relationship with her, that would help dissipating these confusing thoughts.

[DarkNick]

I may sound like a broken record, but you shouldn't label yourself too soon. But if you're in a desperate need for it, then I'd say you're bi tending more to the girls side or perhaps straight curious. I know this doesn't sound like a very reliable answer, but you have to understand it's a bit hard to label someone's sexuality through the Internet and in this young age, do you get it?

Oh, and I'm like you in that way too, I want to find a girl to see if I can have a relationship with her, that would help dissipating these confusing thoughts.

Yes,I understand.I guess that I have to find either a girlfriend or a psychologist! :P

Thanks a lot for your time and your answers!
They were really helpful! :)