Going soft?

[iruledudes]

Whenever I masturbate (and when I've had sex, which was only twice), I tend to go soft after a while and don't really get hard again. I don't go completely soft, but enough so that I can't penetrate a girl. When I masturbate I always reach an orgasm even though I'm pretty much soft, but it normally takes a while.

What could be the cause of this? I'm only 16 so I doubt it would be an erectile disfunction.

Also when I masturbate, I can only reach orgasm if I go all out, that is stroke like crazy, really fast with a hard grip (unless I'm super super close, then I can give it a few slow strokes and orgasm). I get no pleasure what so ever from stroking slowly. How can I change this? When I have sex I don't want to have to be thrusting like crazy for 15 minutes just to have an orgasm...

Thanks :)

[amigo93]

Idk if you can change it. I think you're so used to having an orgasm a certain way that you cant do it any other way. Try new things to see if you can stay aroused longer.

[DerBear]

theirs pills you can get that only help maintain an erection not give you one try these or visit ur doctor

[dany]

it MIGHT be ED im not a doctor. or it coulb be a temporary thing. the bills i think @Derri is talking about are Male Sexual Performance Enhancer Prelox Blue . its a dietary suppliment not "Extenze" or something like that