sophierocks
May 21st, 2011, 10:08 PM
I have always been really close to my younger cousin Stephanie. As a matter of fact, she and her dad are my only living relatives. But we have always been great friends. The weird thing is she looks almost exactly like I do, well what I did when I was 13. She is the only female relative I have and we are like sisters, except we never fight. But anyways, a few weeks ago my uncle (her dad) approached me for a favour. His wife left him and Steph almost as soon as she was born and he has been a single dad the whole time. Stephanie is 13 now and is maturing so her dad wanted me to give her the talk. He said that it would be better for me to do it because we are so close and are both girls. If it was anyone else I wouldnt do it but we were so close that I wouldnt mind. But there was a catch, he wanted me to give her an examination. Only the stuff that is not in your standard doctors appointment because he doesnt trust gynos and because he knows I take that stuff seriously because of the issues I have had with cancer. But anyway I agreed to do it and that was when it started getting awkward.
I was with her in my room one day when I had to do it. So I explained to her what I had to do and why I was doing it. But when I told her it involved getting partially naked, she refused except on 2 conditions, that I went naked too and that we went fully naked. That raised the awkwardness but when I asked her why I had to do it and why full nude she said because she had never seen another girls stuff and wanted to compare. It seemed better to me that it be in a controlled environment rather that randomly at school so I agreed but first was the actual talk. I explained puberty, what would happen, the basics of sex and all that stuff, always being awkward and then it was time to strip.
Amazingly, like the rest of us, under her clothes she looked just like I had when I was 13. First I measured her for a bra, somehow she was a B cup but her dad had never thought to buy her one. I gave her a breast exam, showed her how to do a self-exam and checked her vag for bad abnormalities. All the time it was getting more awkward until it peaked when she asked if she could feel my stuff. I reluctantly accepted but fortunately, it was too awkward to have any real pleasure from it.
Remember how I said the awkwardness peaked? I lied, it peaked when she asked me to show her how to masturbate. I had already told her how but she wanted me to show her. At first I said no but when she said she would just look at porn to find out i agreed to in exchange for her not looking at porn until her dad agreed she was old enough. Her dad had already told me to make sure she doesnt look at any porn until he thought she was ready which he said was her 14th birthday (which was only a couple of months away). So I had to agree. I sat down and rubbed myself and said "you can do it like this or like this" at which point I stuck my fingers in. I stopped but she said she wanted to see me go to orgasm. This was where the awkwardness peaked. I refused and she said she would look at porn. I still refused and it wasnt until she had typed porn into the google bar that I gave in. I tried to go as quickly as possible but it was too awkward to get horny fast. After a while she joined in and orgasmed fairly quickly, I stopped but she demanded I went to orgasm or she would watch porn. I made her promise she would not look at any porn (we always keep promises between eachother) and then went to orgasm as fast as I could. She was amazed when I squirted (so was I considering the awkwardness) and I hurredly got dressed and told her to practice in private.
But anyways, I was wondering:
What would you have done in my situation?
Have you ever had to give the talk?
Have you got any awkward talk stories?
and do you think I did the right thing?
btw, sorry for the long story.
I was with her in my room one day when I had to do it. So I explained to her what I had to do and why I was doing it. But when I told her it involved getting partially naked, she refused except on 2 conditions, that I went naked too and that we went fully naked. That raised the awkwardness but when I asked her why I had to do it and why full nude she said because she had never seen another girls stuff and wanted to compare. It seemed better to me that it be in a controlled environment rather that randomly at school so I agreed but first was the actual talk. I explained puberty, what would happen, the basics of sex and all that stuff, always being awkward and then it was time to strip.
Amazingly, like the rest of us, under her clothes she looked just like I had when I was 13. First I measured her for a bra, somehow she was a B cup but her dad had never thought to buy her one. I gave her a breast exam, showed her how to do a self-exam and checked her vag for bad abnormalities. All the time it was getting more awkward until it peaked when she asked if she could feel my stuff. I reluctantly accepted but fortunately, it was too awkward to have any real pleasure from it.
Remember how I said the awkwardness peaked? I lied, it peaked when she asked me to show her how to masturbate. I had already told her how but she wanted me to show her. At first I said no but when she said she would just look at porn to find out i agreed to in exchange for her not looking at porn until her dad agreed she was old enough. Her dad had already told me to make sure she doesnt look at any porn until he thought she was ready which he said was her 14th birthday (which was only a couple of months away). So I had to agree. I sat down and rubbed myself and said "you can do it like this or like this" at which point I stuck my fingers in. I stopped but she said she wanted to see me go to orgasm. This was where the awkwardness peaked. I refused and she said she would look at porn. I still refused and it wasnt until she had typed porn into the google bar that I gave in. I tried to go as quickly as possible but it was too awkward to get horny fast. After a while she joined in and orgasmed fairly quickly, I stopped but she demanded I went to orgasm or she would watch porn. I made her promise she would not look at any porn (we always keep promises between eachother) and then went to orgasm as fast as I could. She was amazed when I squirted (so was I considering the awkwardness) and I hurredly got dressed and told her to practice in private.
But anyways, I was wondering:
What would you have done in my situation?
Have you ever had to give the talk?
Have you got any awkward talk stories?
and do you think I did the right thing?
btw, sorry for the long story.