rBackstabbing "Friends" (REPLY QUICKLY!!!)

[goofball]

Bunch of douchebags if you ask me.

Here's what happened:

I introduce one of my friends to my best friend, they befriend each other, everything is fine and dandy. A few years later (present), they start going places with other people and excluding me deliberately (sometimes even rubbing in my face that I'm not invited). My best friend doesn't talk to me much anymore, he's off with my other friend all the FUCKING TIME. None of my friends notice me anymore, it's like I've become invisible or silent to them. They don't invite me to anything or acknowledge anything I say. I've not been aggressive to them because of this, nor has my personality or attitude changed. Basically, my "ex" best friend thinks he's too good for me (or, too high on the social ladder to be interacting with me) so he stopped talking to me. Fucking faggot. Sorry for the profanity, I'm fucking pissed off, I've not been able to vent my frustration at all. This is the first time I've ever talked about it, I don't want to risk further losing them. Oh well, my keyboard has taken a pounding...what do you think? Has this ever happened to you? What should I do. I really want to ask them why this? Or tell them to stop be pretentious pricks. I would be happy for this to resort to violence, want to mash their faces to bloody pulps. Sorry, just really mad:mad:...and no, I do not need any mental help.

[Spook]

God. That's never happened to me, but I would go down to the Damn-I-Wanna-Kill-Them stage as well. My advice: Ignore them, and act like they don't mean a thing, and they will most likely come running back to you.

[BrokenXPaperXDolls]

This kind of thing happened to me too. the best thing to do is not to let them see its getting to you and ignore them.

hope this helps

[RoseyCadaver]

Same here,they can go fuck themselves!My new best friend isn't my firend anymore!She made so many empty promises ,at one point I started liking her,thinking she was different then most snobby girls(i go to a private school,go figure !).Anyways I hooked her up with my kinda friend and she back stabbed me saying "Yeaah you can't trust Jacob with anything lol :) .I told her how that really pissed me off and we made up.Now ,one the day of my B-Day,she says she can't come because she realized it's her G-Ma's birthday or some shit.

[Indecision]

Fuck, it's stupid when friends do that. Arn't friends supposed to stick by you, not betray you? All these stories make me so angry, 'cause I know how it feels to betray, and to be betrayed. And now I couldn't do it to anyone. I couldn't. I know how it hurts. Argh.

[PaigeTuTu]

Oh Gosh I'm sorry that has not happened to me at all, but the best thing to do is to talk to them first. :) hope I helped!!

[goofball]

I wish. I'm too angry to talk to them, and worried if I do, I'll completely lose them and make an arse of myself

[Contra]

That has happened to me, but just with one friend. I had a friend here on VT and we started talking out of here (on the Internet, he's from the same country as me but lives far away from me), well, a few weeks later I introduced him to one of my best friends and they got all touchy-feely with each other and "fell in love", and I put that between quotation marks, because I don't really believe in love through the Internet. Oh well, because of that and a few other stuff that happened in between, I don't talk to either of them anymore. On one hand, I'm glad it happened though...

Anyways, in your case, are you closer to any of those friends than to the others? Because if you are, then I'd suggest you would talk to that one, calmly, explain him/her what happened to get him/her on your side, and then use his/her help to get the other ones back. If by any chance you aren't close to any of them, then you should ignore them like someone up there said, pretend they don't exist and try to find some other friends, that could make them jealous, especially if you show you're having fun with the others, and get them back to you. Another thing you could do is wait a bit to see how things turn out, and when you're a bit calmer and not in the "let's kill them" mood, you should try and talk to them.
I'm really sorry about your whole situation, I know how that hurts, really.

Good luck :)

[Hairy14uk]

Move on. As fast as you can. This exact thing happened to me and I just made new friends, it took me a while and even now it's still not the same but the faster you find new friends the better you will feel and the less you will think about them.

[Null]

I've been there once and it sucks. one day your best friends and then weeks later they ignore you because their new found popular "friends"(assholes) dont think highly of you and that you are not cool so they almost brainwash your friend into thinking you arent worth hanging with. Complete dick move. Fuck them all. you have to find people who you connect with on a deep level(emotionally) and stick with them. Im not the kind of person that has a lot of friends, but out of 10 friends 4 of them are some of my best friends ever and will never do that. I could see being friends with 2 them still in 20 years. Those are the people you have to find. Fuck popularity. in the long run it just fucks people emotionally. Dont be an elitist and exclude people because they have different views or interests, thats one of the most dick moves ever.
Violence never solved shit, and neither did being in prison so i recommend you dont beat the shit out of them.
just try to talk to them over facebook or something distant unless u have the balls to talk face to face and tell them how you feel about the current situation. Tell him how you feel. If he calls you a homo for doing that then feel free to give him a punch and walk away:D. Give up if thats all he has to say about the topic, he isnt worth your time.

Friends are one of those thing you've gotta have, if i didnt have them I would probably be insane at this point.
Good luck:D
-Null