Facebook

[Trickster]

Ok, i noticed this guy on facebook, we never met, chatted or anything. I think he is really cute with what he posts and cute in general. Funny thing is... I dont know how to start a conversation and Im terrified of sending him a message at all. The worst part is...If i saw him in person, Id talk to him. Im more confident in person than online... now should i try to talk to him and see if there is a spark or do I just let my little crush stay where it is.

[The Madness.]

If you really want to talk to him, I think you should just start off, "Hello" or something like that. I think, even if you suck at talking online, you should try it. Then maybe get his phone number and if you two keep talking, you might see each other. It's happened. Facebook is becoming the way lots of couples meet now-a-days, sadly.

[TheMatrix]

what has the world come down to now?

[Sage]

If you're better with these things in-person, then why don't you just see him... in-person? That seems like the obvious route to take.

[Trickster]

I cant just See him in person. I dont know anything really about him, only what facebook tells me.

[Sage]

I cant just See him in person.

Why ever not?

[Fruit_Tart.]

Write on his wall one day and tell him how you think he's funny, and if he doesn't reply just approach him through chat by simply putting hi.

Talking to him in person would be way better, though. Face-to-face will give you a more real idea of what he's like.

[iDerek]

I'd say just message him by saying Hi, or Hey whats up? I know I'd like it if a girl messaged me and said I was funny or cute or something, so maybe try a compliment.

[Hairy14uk]

Well you've got a decent conversation starter already, you like what he posts and whatnot, so just try sending him a message. Talk about what he posts and what you post, any mutual friends etc.

[Contra]

I have started talking to people through Facebook and a good way to do it is liking and/or commenting their photos, posts and publications overall. That way he will start to notice you. When you feel more confident I'm sure you'll get the guts to start talking to him. Oh, and also, you should really try and meet him in-person since you're better off at that.

[Upintheair]

okayy this is late but i have the exact same problem. like exactly the same. but i decided to meet him face to face! i found out he goes to my church and hes in the teen youth group, so when august comes im going to go to the youth group and try to talk to him! maybe you could try something like that? try seeing if any of your friends know him or if you know any of his friends to see where he hangs out! good luck

[Ambrosia]

You are very correct, madam. That was a late post! And for it, this has now been :locked:

=) Please don't bump old threads.